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General Forum: Society | | Equalization of Men n Women in current situations in the Society | |
| Posted by: Son of God At: 8, Feb 2006 6:47:44 AM IST
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This is what I mean to say
Posted by: Malakpet Rowdy At: 8, Feb 2006 8:42:42 AM IST
well said....its reasonable n quite possible what u mentioned..krishna garu
Posted by: Mrs. anu anu At: 8, Feb 2006 3:14:18 AM IST
My thoughts on this:
ammayi work chestu unte parents ni chusukovadam enduku possible avvadu? It all depends on how strong & determined the girl is when it comes to helping her family. If the girl is earning her own money then there's no stopping (unless of course there are other dire financial needs that her & her hubby are facing that requires their immediate attention)
Well, in-laws ki problem unte - too bad for them. It's the girl who has to make a conscious effort to convince her hubby and not her in-laws with such delicate matters. Anyway, it's not with his money that she's taking those financial decisions kada? so most husbands' wouldn't have a problem as she is not dipping her hands in his pockets kada, methinks neway.
Why should she have to consult the in-laws and get their approval? Husband having reservations is one thing but in-laws having a say in what a girl does with her hard earned money is kinda ridiculous.
I dunno if the same can be said with such conviction if the girl's not working :( It's not fair for the husband if the girl wants to take care of her parents with her husband's income.
It's quite possible for a girl to take care of her family, her inlaws & parents AND be a working woman at the same time. We women are supposed to be the great multitaskers, remember?
Posted by: Krishna Ch At: 8, Feb 2006 2:20:27 AM IST
also its not something that i am trying to conclude or show the concept..
i am confused how the society feels at such situations...
so gave out for discussion to see how one feels this as n what their views are.....
as an individual in thier peronal case may not come across these...
just to give a thought...
Posted by: Mrs. anu anu At: 7, Feb 2006 8:33:55 PM IST
Thats the taken out case....its far off for a lady who stays back at home and has hand full freedom to take care of her parents...as her full time job would be to take care of her huby n children...
One has to get things from husband...with approval for all......atleast in most of the cases.
what i mean here is...
ammayi..work chestu earn chestu...which is equal to her hubby...
ala situation lo kuda....parents responsibilities chesukovadam entha varaku possible avutundi?
family (hubby n inlaws) harshistaraa ilanti direction ni?
Posted by: Mrs. anu anu At: 7, Feb 2006 8:27:20 PM IST
But same time when the wife works n earns, will she be able to take care of her parents same way, n take all their responsibilities ?
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So shoudl they be taken care of *** ONLY IF THE GAL WORKS AND EARNS **** ???
In other words .. if she happens to be a housewife, her parents dont deserve to be taken care of eh?
Posted by: Malakpet Rowdy At: 7, Feb 2006 8:20:26 PM IST
But what i feel is....
-- when a guy works n earns , he has freedom to give money n take responsiblities of parents..
"Also this is considered as So called responsibility n his duty to take care of parens"
-- But same time when the wife works n earns, will she be able to take care of her parents same way, n take all their responsibilities ?
Will this be considered as Duty of the girl too?
according to my farseen view, thats not happening...
both the sons n girls have been studied enginering n medicine...with payments
but once the girl marries, she shouldn't be taking part of her parents burdens....but sons should be responisbly doing all these....
Posted by: Mrs. anu anu At: 7, Feb 2006 7:49:45 PM IST
chala wide topic for discussion well i personaly feel guys r the lucky lot chakaga udyogam sadyogam antu baladoor tirigi vastaru vandite vanka vandakapote virpu :)) enta kadu anna invisible ga ladies pettanme intlo evaru evari intiki vachina ali vanka varu atma bhanduvulu ani sameta gurtu petukovali .. ee madya kalam lo son in laws attagari care take bagane chestunaru ani mechukovalsinde thalli salaha kanna attagarini adige allule ekuva ipotunaru so on the whole marpu atu itu kuda avtundi evaru samanam ani alochinchali antara ???
Posted by: Mrs. Saraswati M At: 7, Feb 2006 6:20:46 PM IST
that's nice that someone is really open.
naa confusion lo..
like Daughter-in-law, MIL's ni care teesukunnatle.....Son-in-law girls parents ni chuusukovali kada? is this some thing not to be or against the society?
eddaru parents equal important avvuna kada?
girl ni kanna parents..oka sari marriage tarvata...they should not expect any help? (any type of )
whats ur opinion on this Malak Ji?
Posted by: Mrs. anu anu At: 7, Feb 2006 5:19:50 PM IST
As of my case .. I and my wife share everything 50-50, though at times she takes more responsibility due to my laziness
Posted by: Malakpet Rowdy At: 7, Feb 2006 4:28:48 PM IST
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