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General Forum: My Motherland | | Women in Foreign countries are more independent than in India | |
| Yes,Deepika,now a days the situation is changing for a good.But as you said,we can't conclude that everywhere it is changing.Woman are getting educated and doing jobs outside their houses.But how many graduate women are allowed to work after they get married?How much liberty is being given to face their own life and to choose their most liked career?Are we giving them all those chances before and after marriage?then why so many suicides?sometimes because of dowry,sometimes because of husband and many other reasons?
thanks for that nice quote !It has a lot of meaning to tell.
I agree with that quote but sometimes I feel that the society is not giving scope to women to realize their own power.
Posted by: Mr. Madhusudan Karri At: 29, May 2002 6:19:37 AM IST
I dont necessarily agree with all your comments. I agree that Indian women were facing some problems.
But i did not face any restrictions and neither have i seen any restrictions on my friends.
The time has changed and many people (if not all) have started respecting women.
Discrimination is some thing of the past now even in INDIA (atleast i have not seen any kind of discrimination).
Well let me quote some thing here i dont know who said this but this one addresses women
"..Carrying your heart on your sleeve, crying in the public. playing football wearing bermudas, leaving ur hair long or short You can be different by doing something that no man can do. being a woman... "
Posted by: Ms. Deepika Andavarapu At: 29, May 2002 5:58:56 AM IST
thank you both swapna and DD,
Another painful aspect in Indian families is that it is seen as a great sin if a woman wants to divorce from her husband and live separately.They won't respect that idea.even more painfully,we see many Indian women ending up in commiting suicide because of lack of support from anyside.
Posted by: Mr. Madhusudan Karri At: 29, May 2002 2:08:59 AM IST
Its okay,I have just read what he has to say on varakatnam.and now i understood ur comments.
and as far as this topic is concerned,I would like to share some nice lines.One of my friends has sent me these lines.he said they appeared in a magazine but don't know which one exactly.anyway,here it is:
eppatilaage oka mahila tana intlo gadulanni cheepurutho tudichindi.aa cheepuru baaga arigipoyindani gamaninchi,daanni teesukelli inti bayata visirestundaga,aa cheepuru aametho ila andata:
"nee jeevitaanikeppudamma vimukthi?" ani.
Posted by: Mr. Madhusudan Karri At: 29, May 2002 0:30:45 AM IST
sorry it is yalam apparao - and I just poseted up a follow up on his comments on varakatnam.
Posted by: darinapoyye danayya At: 29, May 2002 0:06:10 AM IST
I am sorry,I don't know if I understood your comments.Also I don't know who is that yelam apparao too.it would be great if you can share with me.
Posted by: Mr. Madhusudan Karri At: 29, May 2002 0:00:09 AM IST
finally a sane person! you need to offer a piece of your mind to yelam apparao - he seems to think males in India are the disadvantaged and downtrodden lot.
Posted by: darinapoyye danayya At: 28, May 2002 11:56:59 PM IST
Hi everyone,there is a slight correction in the name of the topic.I should have said that women in Western countries rather than foreign countries.Because compared to India,the life of women in many muslim nations and african nations is still miserable.so,please try to take it as western countries rather than rest of India.
Posted by: Mr. Madhusudan Karri At: 28, May 2002 11:35:43 PM IST
Hi all,
I see so many women compromising with their lives in India.From the good old days,women are always deprived of good education,liberty to move freely and to do work out of home and many other good things,which are being dominated by the male population.This has made a woman to be more and more dependent either on father before she gets married,or husband after marrying him.Whereas in the western countries,woman is so independent that one can feel that she never really needs a male for her own existence.
Please give your valuable suggestions for a healthy discussion.
Posted by: Mr. Madhusudan Karri At: 28, May 2002 11:31:53 PM IST
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