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General Forum: Current 'Affairs' | | Pre-Maritial Sex | |
| Ofcourse, this is a matter which concerns to Individuals. But Individuals should think of the morals too.
Low standard of Living ki, Ignorance ki, mana "culture" ki yemiti sambandham. mana vinta pokadalu, vipareeta manastatvaaalu, artham leni swaatantrya kaanksha(vaiyaktikaaniki sambandhinchi, not for the country) , ivee kaaranaalu.
inkoka 5 or 6 years varaku marriage chesukokundaa undaalani, feelings ni control chesukovaalaa ani adugutunnaaru. baagaane undi. mari mee jeevita bhaagaswaami gaa raaboye ammaayi koodaa alaane aalochiste yemi chestaaru? Prati vyakti tananu chesukoboye vyakthi tamaku maatraame anni rakaalugaa chendi undaalani korukuntaare kaani, ilaaga "feelings" ni satisfy chesukune vaallu gaa undaalani korukoru kadaa!! This is not to point out to any one person. But a question to everyone who advocate this kind of thought.
Ika khachitamgaa pelli chesukune vaallaku koodaa ante. Pelli Jarigenta varaku aagaleraa? Adi yelaanti issue ayinaa sare, manake parimitam kaadu, mana future generation ayina pillalaki yelaanti messages istundi, yelaanti ideology vaallalo manam cultivate cheyaali ani aalochinchaali. Ade oka parents gaa meeru ilaantivi mee pillala vishayamlo encourage cheyagalaraa?
Ofcourse, ippatiki ilaanti jarugutu undi undavacchu. ika mundu koodaa jaragavacchu. kaani So called "Educated" ,"Cultured" anukune vaallu nijamgaane aalochinchaalsina vishayaalu ivi.
Individuality of thought and behaviour undaali, Freedom undaali. ante kaani deni limits daaniki untaayi. Freedom implies Responsibility too.
As it is stressed, evaru yenni cheppinaa yevari paddatilo vaallu veltoone untaaru. kaakapote, yevaram ye pani chesinaa, aa pani patla aasakthi, mana meeda manaki nammakam undaali. So evarishtam vaaride lendi.
Posted by: Ms. Prasanthi Uppalapati At: 2, Oct 2002 4:45:10 PM IST
I appreciate the concerns towards our culture, but when two individuals are consenting to go for it culture takes a backseat. I dont see why this should be a problem to others as it is wholly personal to the consenting individuals. Pre-marital sex existed earlier and will even in the future. For records, men were known to visit brothels etc for satisfying their sexual needs even before marriage. The difference now is scope for pre-marital sex has widened.
Pre-marital sex is here to stay. Rather than looking at it as a social evil, let the decission to go for pre-marital sex be left with the consenting individuals.
As Chandrasekhara garu pointed out, people(either a woman or a man) do not flaunt it. Whether you accept it or not pre-marital sex will exist even in the future and will solely be the decission of the consenting individuals.
Posted by: Pavan At: 2, Oct 2002 3:29:35 PM IST
As some of the fellow members mentioned that having sex before marriage is acceptable
which is not right according to me.
Do not try to westernise our beautiful culture. Take the good policies from the west and try to imply it for our country's development.
Compete with the far east in terms of technology and prove that U can do it too...
but.....Plz do not develop a westernised attitude by sleeping with a gal before getting married. Refrain from doing this till U R married.
Posted by: Mr. Srinivas Rao Adapa At: 2, Oct 2002 12:29:47 PM IST
In my openion sex is very different from making love.sex is something where two people satisfy their physical needs whereas making love is where two people are not only physically involved but emotionally and mentally feel for each other.but if there are no feelings then pre marital sex is wrong. so if two individuals love each other and feel for each other and want to get up,close and personal in order to understand and support each others feelings then in my openion getting intimate before marriage is not a wrong.after all making love is worshiping the mind and soul with body......
Posted by: Ms. madhu katuri At: 2, Oct 2002 10:02:11 AM IST
Anubhooti Annadi Bootutoo Mudipaditee Elaa ??
Mana Clulture, Heritage Ivee Kakundaa .. Manakantoo Konni Ethics Vundali.Pruning Aneedilekuntee Chettu Kuda Addadiddamga Perugutundi.
Posted by: ChandramSetti ChandraSekhar At: 2, Oct 2002 0:05:36 AM IST
Asale Aids to chastunte, inkaa Pre-Marital Sex ni support cheyaalaa andi? Mana Culture lo Marriage fix ayinaa, abbaayini , ammaayini kalisi tiragadaaniki koodaa inkaa andaroo alavaatu padaledu. That to, mana population choodandi yelaa perugutoo undo!! Pelli ayina couples koodaa, until 2 years after their marriage pillalni kanakundaa unte baavuntundi. That to, Marriages 24 or 25 years tarvaata chesukunte ganaka, mana population growth rate konchem control avutundi. At the same time couple madhya understanding perugutundi.
I do not advocate Pre-Marital Sex.
Posted by: Ms. Prasanthi Uppalapati At: 1, Oct 2002 10:57:22 PM IST
Do you advocate sex before marriage?
Posted by: Mr Chandra Sekhar Bommisetty At: 1, Oct 2002 4:53:53 PM IST
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