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General Forum: Love | | arranged marraiges r better than love marraiges | |
| Oh, you speak good English(At: 19, Nov 2003 10:28:11 PM IST) , Priya wutever! Good to hear you speaking English.
Posted by: Durga Prasad At: 21, Nov 2003 5:08:15 PM IST
ey raaYi ayite enTi moham pagalakoTTukodaniki...asalu idanta kaadu .. marriages gurinchi oka mahanabhavudu emi cheppadanTe......
orE vaddurA sOdaraa arE peLLanTE noorELLa manTaraa
aadaraa baadharaa nuveLLeLLi gOtilO paDodduraa rE
vadduraa vaddu vadduraa sOdaraa arE peLLanTe noorELLa manTaraa
aadaraa baadharaa nuveLLeLLi gOtilO paDodduraa
cheDipOvaddu brahmachaari paDipOvaddu kaalu jaari
taaLi kaTToddu karma kaali aali anTEne bhadrakaaLi
kalyaaNamE khaiduraa janmanta veeDu kala lEduraa
nee kompa munchEstundiraa aapukOlE nee tondaraa
dont marry he be happy dont marry he be happy
dont marry he be happy dont marry he be happy
Posted by: Mr. Frank Abagnale Jr. At: 21, Nov 2003 12:13:00 PM IST
hmmm....arranged marriages better or love marriages better anikakundaa..marriage ni ela success chesukovalo chebutunnara.....okay
********Two hearts that beat as one....We two are special to eachother.....Indeed we are made for eachother*************
Idi memu anukunEdi ilaa anukune prati janta......inka cheppakkaraledanukuntanu
Posted by: Mrs. Aruna At: 21, Nov 2003 7:50:51 AM IST
Yes u r right raghu ji...
1.Either marriage will be fail only when they try to show superiority.. for example nenu ane bavana vachinapudu max problems vasthayi..manam anedi mariage
either in love/arranged before marriage they are seperate..after marriage they r one ...apudu etu vanti problems vudnavu...
first of all magavadu superiorty choopinchakoodadu..and ladies emo alagatam ethipodupumatalu cheyakoodadu...
to make a marriage succesfull both should understand each other and should live in reality not look for things which cant get...
Posted by: Mr. M.S.Reddy At: 21, Nov 2003 7:35:37 AM IST
naa dari rahadari, better don't come in my way... rajani mama style
naa roooooote seperatu... mohan babai style...
naaku maatram arranged marriages istam.. enchakka pelli chupulaki poyi sweets thini, ammayini paata padamani adigi nachite chesukovachu pelli...
he he he he....
Posted by: chantabbayi At: 21, Nov 2003 1:40:53 AM IST
Love and Arranged Marriages are two paths to one Goal.Path is quite different for both.
Love is so full of love and sacrifice but it should not sacrifice love itself for someone else.
People who are for love marriages.....listen carefully.Loving at first sight is not great.If you are really daring,only then fall and live in love.
If you are so sentimental and a person who cannot convince your parents regarding love marriage,then do not be go for such divine thing like love marriage.Inner and outer looks are important for any life in general.just do not go crazily for outer looks alone.Those will not feed your heart and soul your whole life.Inner beauty does so.At last if you are one who really lives love ,who is daring ,who can be her security her whole life especially in her inlaws' place.......its then you are worthy of loving a person whom you can make her your life partner.
People who are for arranged marriages.....well and good.You will not have any problems if your marriage is fixed by your parents.Love Lasts long as it is not love at first sight or something.Love at first sight is true but it is more real if that first look lasts till the end.
In conclusion please don't mind me saying this......
Love marriage :Digging one's own pit
Arranged marriage:parents' digging your pit.
Pit here doesn't mean hell or anything....it means responsibility...who is responsible.....for what.
Posted by: Mrs. sharmila Sanka At: 21, Nov 2003 1:36:55 AM IST
i am too young to talk about all these i guess but yes i do have a say in this matter...i have experienced pangs of love too and have been turned down...there is nothing like being loved in return for the love you give....selfless love expects just one thing ....love......it expects love in return for love...so it isnt as selfless...
so if it is an arranged marriage...make sure you are capable of love before you embark on the lifelong journey(though nowadays they are being cut short by divorces)cause there is no lookng back on this one...if you think you cannot work things out with the person your are about to marry ...dont go ahead and do it to please anyone....even if you feel marriage is going to bring love..dont do it .
do it if you feel something for the other person....all this only if you are not in love with someone else...
if you are in love ....and you get back the love you give...there is nothing which can and which should stop you from going onto marriage....but the truth though bitter is that it takes a lot to make love and marriage work.......its a process of constant discovery of yoru partner....you shouldnt allow your partner to get sick of you and viceversa....so even if you marry by your conditions tht cannot guarentee a happy life.....marriage is just the first step(if it is a love marriage then marriage is the 2nd step love being the first...)the 2nd ste p should be to make the marriage work...so marriage arranged or love isnt a piece of cake.....both are equally lovely and equally hard..
bye
guys and keep me posted on recent marriage trend.....i would love to know all about it before i actually get married...;)
Posted by: Mr. ravi keerti At: 20, Nov 2003 11:25:46 PM IST
Hmm.... in my opinion rendu bettere...
pelliki mundhu evarni preminchakunda unte arranged marriagese better....
but pelli ki mundhu evarnaina premiste... prema pellille better(peddala angeekaaram unte anthakannana??)
but okallani preminchi...inkokallani pelli chesukunte... narakam.... adi anubhavinche vallake telustundi....
but in arranged u must let your parents know your expectations...
but in both cases... iddaroo settle ayinaake pelli chesukovali...
lekapoth majority trouble antha money daggare start avutundi....na opinion lo.. :)
Posted by: Mugdha At: 20, Nov 2003 9:20:03 PM IST
very neat :)
but the question again is edirinchi prEma ki artham kalinpinchaalaa? assalu edirinchakooDadaa?
Mee stories chadivi tondarlone opinion post chesta :)
Posted by: Saleem At: 20, Nov 2003 5:00:24 PM IST
Look at Mr. Rajeswar who married two. One love marriage and the other arranged marriage.
Posted by: Mr. M Kumar N At: 20, Nov 2003 4:42:33 PM IST
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