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General Forum: Love | | Marriage - Conditional or Unconditional love -- Part 2 | |
| Priyz, I Also Said That Unless And Until We Are Not In Their Shoes We Wouldn't Know The Pain And Cause. Did You Read That Section Or Bosting At Me ??? :P
Posted by: Mr. Raj Raj At: 23, Oct 2004 0:36:42 AM IST
Just Think Logically Emo_Nandi :) In All The Family, If Only One Gets The Thing...What Would You Say ?
Posted by: Mr. Raj Raj At: 23, Oct 2004 0:35:33 AM IST
My apologies boss. I asked the white freak(My Colleague) sitting next to me if he uses the word "Bread Winner" and he said "What?", so I thought it's not a common word in US. I haven't heard that word before.
Posted by: Mr. Naaketeleedu Neekenduku At: 23, Oct 2004 0:28:01 AM IST
A Typical Guy Doesn't Understand Logistic English Language, Emo_Nandi :) Do I Need To Explain It More ???
Posted by: Mr. Raj Raj At: 23, Oct 2004 0:21:03 AM IST
Couldn't help noticing this article on the main page. Raj, what the heck do you mean by bread winner? Isn't that supposed to be bread earner?
Raaga, Bravo girl, I have to definitely commend you for your audacity through out this debacle. You don't have to really explain to people why you divorced your ex. All it matters in the end was if you are happy. If you are happy wave a birdie at the folks who makes ghastly comments.
Stocklot, I believe you are an okay person, all you need to do is to find the bug that's crawling up your butt stinging once in a while and kill it.
*Dancing*
Sankar Daada MBBS, Sankar Daada MBBS...
Posted by: Mr. Naaketeleedu Neekenduku At: 23, Oct 2004 0:15:54 AM IST
For The First Part I Don't Think I Would Have Done What You Did Tapana. Ofcourse, No one Knows The Pain Until You Are In Their Shoes. We Go Around The Fire Saat Sang Leke For Pain Or Cause And Support Each Other Unless And Until It Really Doesn't Work Out. That Is What I Believe In.
Second Part Is Kind Of Weird For Me.
Anyway, Best Of Luck For Your Newly Wedded Life Tapana :)
Hoping Your Ex Recovers Quickly From Mental Problems And Get On With His Life. Aamin :)
Posted by: Mr. Raj Raj At: 23, Oct 2004 0:07:37 AM IST
I explained that in my other posts. Anyway, here I go again.
My answer to the first part of your question is
if the sikness is physical related, I wouldnot have left him alone. Its realted to mental condition and he was not ready for the treatment. If you know anything abt the disease, the chances of kids aquiring it is very high. I have consulted several doctors myself before I made decision. They all said the same thing to me. No one has given me a ray of hope in this matter. Raj, it wasn't easy decision for anyone.
and second part of the question,
I didnot marry knowing that he was not working. My family was lied about his qualification and job..But, I didnot make those as a ground for divoce.
Posted by: Ms. tapana raaga At: 22, Oct 2004 11:50:54 PM IST
Think other way round what happened to you, Tapana. If you were sick and your husband was only bread winner, would you get rid of him ?
BTW, Why did you marry a person who doesn't work ? //*Infact, I am the only bread winner of the family through out our marriage.* //
Posted by: Mr. Raj Raj At: 22, Oct 2004 11:45:20 PM IST
Yeah..Sometimes, I feel sorry for him just as a human being for his condition. His parents should really take him to get medical help. He was under the impression that everyone around him is trying to kill him and kept himself locked from the outside world. That clearly is a symptom of schyzophernia disease. If you think thats innocence, one way, yes, it is. But, I know how it is like to live with a schyzophernia patient. and Giri, conditions will make you smart and my conditions has taught me to be smart and capable. If I am not, then who would have taken care of the family then? He couldnot keep the pace because of his illness.
Posted by: Ms. tapana raaga At: 22, Oct 2004 11:45:08 PM IST
Yeah Raaga, life is all about making things better for ourselves. He wasn't willing to go along and he got the treatment he deserved. But I would definitely wish to listen to his part of story. Coz from ur post, I felt he was a bit innocent, and u grew smarter (in good meaning). He couldn't keep the pace :)
Posted by: Giri K At: 22, Oct 2004 11:36:46 PM IST
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