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General Forum: Love | | maturity antey enti?(dont mistake) | |
| lOka jn^aanam ant^e kula praati padikalu gat^ranu
Posted by: Mr. M Kumar N At: 14, Mar 2005 9:16:03 PM IST
mechyuriTee anTE vayasuku taggaTTu lEka vayasuni minchi maanasikamgaa edigi unDaDam , konchem lOka jNaanam telisi unDaali. !
Posted by: Ms. akshara At: 14, Mar 2005 8:39:17 PM IST
1. Introduction to maturity ?
2. Maturity can be defined or it's a situation??
3. Maturity has relations to behavior, attitude, knowledge?
4. What maturity does exactly?
5. Maturity has levels ?
6. Maturity can be evaluated? or measured?
Posted by: Mr. M Kumar N At: 14, Mar 2005 8:49:30 AM IST
cheppaalanTE chaantaaDanta avutundi :)!
NTvOdu gaaru vachchi tala vaachipOyindi anTE naa paruvu Emi gaanu ?? ! :)
Posted by: Ms. akshara At: 14, Mar 2005 0:04:57 AM IST
:)
Posted by: Ms. akshara At: 13, Mar 2005 9:05:19 PM IST
modaTi renDu praSnalu - menTal mechyooriTi eppuDu vastundi? machyooriTi anTae aenTi?
asalu menTal mechyooriTi anTae aenToa chooddaamu modaTa. maturity is with regard to a balanced behaviour. Balancing here refers to balance of emotions, feelings and expressions. manishi attitude elaagannaa unDavachchu. funny gaa unDavachchu, serious gaa unDavachchu, negligent gaa ayiunDavachchu. ayitae evaraitae oka pratyaeka objective orietation toa laeda oka goal orientation toa vishayaalanu anchanaa vaestaaroa vaariki manam vaaru aloachinchae vishayaala paTla maturity unnaTTugaa cheppukoavachchu. daanartham vaaru aa vishayaalloa sariggaa aloachistunnaaru ani artham kaadu. vaaru aa vishayaanni balanced gaa anchanaa vaestunnaaru ani. vaarikunna pariNgaanam baTTi paristhitula baTTi tappu kaavachchu. oppu kaavachchu. mental maturity annadi oka level of thinking oka stage of thinking .
menTal machyooriTY annadi oka absolute stage kaadu. anTae evarannaa oka manishini paTTukuni eeyana absolutley mentally matured annaDaaniki laedu. aayana aa nirdushTa vishayamloa matured ga aloachistunnaaDu annalsindae. oka Sastravaetta antariksham gurinchi enta mechyoorDgaa aloachistaaDoa adae Saastra vaetta tana kooturi peLLi vishayamloa antae matured gaa aloachinchaka poavachchu. oka CEO of organisation business elaa naDapaaloa matured gaa aloachinchavachchu. adae CEO samsaaramloa vachchae samasyalanu adae maturity toa deal chaeyaka poavachchu. anil ambaani Reliance business machyoorDgaa deal chaesi unDavachchu kaani Amar singh, Amitab bachan laanTi public and political figures toa deal chaeyaDamloa maturity chooyinchaka poavachchu.ilaa udaharinchutoo poavachchu. ilaa okkoa vishayamloaa okkoa paristhiti baTTi maturity of an individual vary kaavachchu. kaakapoatae oka manishikunDae taatvika chintana ( philosopohical thinking ) valla , generally speaking , a man develops a broad frame work of assessment of things. largely he deals with the things in a more matured way than anybody else andukae organisations seek not just management professionals as thier executives but somebody who can views the things in a broader frame work i.e, in a philosophical frame work.. ika saadhaaraNa vyakti gurinchi cheppaalanTae largely maturity is related to public relations or human relations in day to day interaction with society . oka manishi elaa baadha paDutunnaaDu , enduku baadha paDutunnaaaDu, enduku navvutunnaaDu, eduTi vaaLLanu enta varaku interactive mode loa unchagalaDu etc. maturity level nu cheptaayi.
ika menTal mechyooriTi ae vayassuloa vastundi? saadhaaraNangaa maturity is not perfectly correlated to age kaabaTTi ee vayassu ani cut off peTTi cheppaDam kashTam. mana ammammalu naanammalu manaku saadhaaraNangaa chaadastangaa kanipstaaru.-:)
ayitae maental maturity largely depends on exposure and experience , which generally accretes alongwith age .
Posted by: Mr. Aandhrudu At: 13, Mar 2005 7:56:29 PM IST
Statements describing obout referring to a mature person:
1.If an individual is going to grow toward the kind of maturity we are talking about, he will find it helpful to have secure development, pre-adult underpinnings - he should not have to deflect his energies into "refighting" childhood battles or nursing old hurts. Maturity can only be built on sound foundations.
2.When a person can live with his past without being bogged down by it, he remains adaptable, capable of continued change.
3.Another characteristic of becoming mature is the development of wisdom.
4.The mature individual can be ribald or genteel, sweet or acid, jolly or glum. The important point is that he be alive, with vigorous interests that make him interesting to be with. He should have a sense of humor.
5.An important characteristic of the individual who becomes mature is that he is at home with reality.
6.The mature individual cannot look outer reality in the face unless he is prepared to look himself in the face, too. He is at home with himself.
7.It follows that the mature individual has to be able to love comfortably with his own body, whether it be strong or weak, handsome or ugly, healthy or failing.
8.If the individual's growth toward maturity is rooted in the positive emotional bonds of early infancy, human relationships are going to have a high priority for him.
9.The person equipped with the human sensitivities that make for maturity will usually have powerful concern with social problems and ways of alleviating them.
10.For all his social-mindedness, for all his savoring of human relationships, the maturing individual is not dependent on always having company.
11.It is apparent that the person who is becoming mature does not accept values readymade.
12.The mature individual has to learn when to conform and when not to conform, when to speak out and when to remain silent. His values must be so structured and scaled that he can distinguish between what is central and inviolable and what is peripheral and expendable - or at least can be postponed.
13.To live realistically (which by no means forbids the conscious exploitation and employment of fantasy) means to live in consciousness of one's own mortality.
14.The mature person knows that he has to go on choosing alternatives, that each alternative costs him something, and there are things he will never be able to do and experience. He also knows that there are things he will never be able to do again, that he can never recapture his youth or relive his first encounters with certain experiences. He knows that his integrity is continually threatened by practical demands, by seductive temptations, by concessions and compromises, by conflicting values, and can only be preserved at the cost of some psychic strain.
15.He knows that the only real rewards in life come with continued growth, and that there is no room in the one material life he has for major regrets. This individual who has approached maturity can know that he has loved, had done his work, has made his mark on people and, although he wishes there were more time, that he has made the most of what there was
In Summary:
The adult with a capacity for true maturity is one who has grown out of childhood experiences without losing childhood's best traits. He has retained the basic emotional strengths of infancy, the stubborn autonomy of "toddlerhood", the capacity for wonder and pleasure and playfulness of the preschool years, the capacity for affiliation and intellectual curiosity of the school years, and the idealism and passion of adolescence. He has incorporated these into a new pattern of simplicity dominated by adult stability, wisdom, knowledge, sensitivity to other people, responsibility, strength, and purposefulness.
Posted by: Ms. akshara At: 13, Mar 2005 7:02:35 PM IST
one more step I want to go ahead
Not only taking but also Handling and dealing with the things in an approved way is called maturity.
Aperson may be more matured enough to understand his /her parents and at the same time less matured to handle his/her spouse.
Posted by: Mrs. shaloo At: 13, Mar 2005 6:45:52 PM IST
Maturity is a common element in every individual.
Posted by: Mr. M Kumar N At: 13, Mar 2005 5:34:19 PM IST
peddatarahAgA uMDaTamaMTE EmiTi? This has been my question. May be we are in the same boat chakravarthy garu.
What I feel is we should be able to analyse the situations, people and also be diplomatic in our conversation and relations with others, more so, tactful. Yes. May be we can attribute to responsibility also. If we wish to be responsible, then automatically we will be careful enough and we will get the so called maturity.
This is how I convince myself for my question.
Yes. Women are more responsible when compared to men and so they are more mature. Our Indian system is also like that, girls be careful. So maturity comes natural(no other/double meaning here) to them.
Ofcourse it doesn't mean that those who have responsibilities are mature enough. Those who take responsibility are mature enough.
Posted by: Ms. Prasanthi Uppalapati At: 13, Mar 2005 1:38:49 PM IST
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