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General Forum: Love | | Which are Best ? Love Marriages or Arranged Marriages | |
| I forgot to mention about the main topic itself.
It is a very interesting topic.
I think in this era, love marriages would be a better option but before that the couple involved should have certain understanding about life and their responsibilities in life. Guddiga velli premalo padataniki idi movie kaadu kadaa, real life. I think in a love marriage the couple know each other. They know each other enough to understand each other's faults and accept them and still love each other. But definitely it should be approved by parents of the couple. Endukante peddavalla aashirwadamu lenide manamu chese ee pani successful kaadu. Of course I am not talking about the love inspired by movies, but true love which comes naturally without any influence. The only thing in love marriage is that the couple in love should be able to convince their parents that they have made the right decision. Because parents are always protective about their kids. Parents don't want their kids to get hurt, undukane parents usually oppose for love marriage. Kaani vallani convince chesukogaligithe, then love marriages would be very successful.
But that doesn't mean I discourage arranged marriages. This is also good because mana peddavallaku mana gurinchi manakanna ekkuva vallaki telusu. And as of I know our parents always want the best for us and want to make sure that we are happy. So, even if they find someone for us, they wouldn't just force us but rather they would give us the option to make a choice.
Posted by: Miss Madhavi Madhavi At: 7, Sep 2002 12:47:38 PM IST
Sreedhar garu,
Meeru chaala baaga chepparu. That was awesome. I completely agree with you.
That was great, keep it up.
Manamu mana peddavaallani ardhamu chesukunte, then we would definitely not do anything that would hurt them and in the process we won't get hurt.
Posted by: Miss Madhavi Madhavi At: 7, Sep 2002 11:33:28 AM IST
Prashanti garu et all,
To some extent i support raji garu..
"Students ki maturity undadaaa?"
college lo chadive students ki maturity entavaraku untundi? nijanga maturity
unte life gurinchi alochistaaru, tana responsibilities telusukuntaru, future
gurinchi enno ashayalato untaaru, ilanti vaaru love lo padite, adi sincere
love, danni tappakunda nilabettukuntaadu, tamavallani voppistaaru, andarni
mepistaaru. even naa friends unnaru, valladi love marriage, intlo vallani
oppinchi mari chesukunnaru. Idi true love fine, but real life lo enni ilantivi
unnai ? manam vintunna / choostunna love asalu nijamina preme kane kaadu, adi
pakka infatuation. andamina ammai kanapadda, leka abbai style ga
kanipinchina, ventane, tamanu taamu cinema rangelo oohinchukoni, ooha lokamlo
ooyaloogutu, untaaru. Ilanti ekkuvaga inter, Eng collegello ekkuvaga jarugaatai
endukante akkada unna students they just entered into the life, they barely know
what life is. aveshame tappa alochana sariga undani vayasu, they donot know
much abt themselves, much abt their counterpart, but still they call it love
mostly they inspired by movies, which are showing a wrong way to them.
ade universities lo kani inka higher education daggara, ilanti failures
kanapadavu, endukante akka student matured. they know what exactly they are
doing, they know abt the society they are in etc.,
"peddalu ku endukante dwesham" " pata chintakaya pachadi bhavalu"
Idena mana talli tandrulanu artham chesukundi ?
pottukadupolo tantunna naa bidda ani badha bharistundi talli, gundela meeda
tantunte bidda paadalu kandipotaayani badha pade tandri, ila aharnishalu
kashtapadi, manaku kashtam teliyakunda, allaru mudduga penchina talli tandrulu
mana manchi kosam edanna chepite adi variki mana meedunna prema tappa dwesham
ela avutundi? 20 yella vayasulo love lo paddamu ani cheppagane varu ela
react avutaru, what u expect ? u want them to be happy by this ?
then we are thinking in a wrong way, manam evishayam cheppagane manalni
tidataaru, enduko telusa, premaku akarshanaku teda teliyani vayasu adi ani,
vyatirekistaaru adi sahajam. even repu manam ade position lo unna ade chestam,
endukante manam kooda mana pillalni alage penchutaamu. Denito badha padda a
janta atmahatya prayatnamo leka nijamga atma hatyo chesukovachu. Ippudu dinni
papers lo chadivi e anubandham leni maname inta badha padutunnamu, vaari
peddavaaru moorkulu ani comments chestunname, aa talli tandrulu enta kshobha
padutunnaro evarina alochinchaara, tama kadavaraku untaranukunna vaaru
ardhantaranga vellipoyare ani vaaru badha padutunte daniki tappu varide ani
enduku veletti chooputaaru ? idi nyayama ? atmahatya chesukune vallu asalu
nijamina premikulena ? asalu prema gurinchi telisina vaaru talli tandrula
premani tama swartham ki takattu pedatara ?
pedda valla prema manaku pata ga kanipistundi, endukante mana adhunika
prapachaniki chendina varam kada, konta varaku nijame generation gap untundi,
but vaari anbhubhavam alochane, mana aveshaniki todi, manalo nijamina
vyaktitvaniki oopiri postaayi. manaku 25 years dataka manam ide vishayam chepte
tittaru, peddavadi ayyavu, nuvve manchi chedu alochinchi oka nirnayam tesuko
antaaru, adi mana peddalu, adi vaari peddarikam.
Okari gurinchi telusukovadaniki enta kalam kavali ? deeniki evaru javabu
cheppaleru. manam preminche vaaru machi vaara, leda anedi, kachitanga manaku
teliyadu, kani manam aa vyakti ni nammutaamu. a vyakti manalni mosam cheya
lanukunte evaru apaleru, there are somany instances even after knowing a person
for years betrays coolly. kabatti okari gurinchi telusukovalante jeevita kalam
saripodemo.. kevalam manam eduti vyakti meeda erparuchu konedi nammakam matrame
ika asalu topic love marriage Vs arranged marriages.
preminche hrydayam unna vaariki, prema viluva telisina variki a rendu same,
varu preminchi pellichesukunna, direct ga pellichesukunna, prema ga untaaru,
prema viluva chaati cheputaaru.
manalo preminche hrudayaniki punadi prema ne, ee prema ento telusa, puttina
nati nundi, talli tandrulu manapi choope prema, chelli chili panullo unde prema,snehutula valla manam ponde prema.. ivanni leni manishi denni premincha ledu.
Sorry i don't wannt hurt any body, i am not aginst to love,
but only one thing, cinemala valla inspire ayyi danni love anukune, varini
nenu ennadu support cheyanu, when u doesn't know the responsibilities then ur
not entitled to love. ur love is not a pure / true love if u never discuss it
with ur beloved once(either parents or siblings). True love never fails,
prema viluva telisinavadu ante vadiki tana badhyatalu telusu. oka vela 20 yella
vayasulo ivanni unna vyakti ante, alanti vyakti ni atani love nenu kooda support
chestaanu.
manam badha padda tappuledu kanni, mana valla manaku janma nishina a devullu
matram badha pada koodadu.
Posted by: Sreedhar G At: 7, Sep 2002 9:17:50 AM IST
hello there..
will someone please explain what a love cum arranged marriage is?? Isn't that a contradicting phrase? - either the girl/boy compromises and learns to love the person her/his parents chose OR the parents compromise and accept the person their child chose.
Posted by: dhara d At: 7, Sep 2002 1:52:27 AM IST
Raaji garu, ee kaalam lo yuvatha jobs levani chachi potaaraa? jeevitham meeda evariki prema ledanukuntunnaaraa emitandi?
Financial security vachentavaraku aagi, job vachaake chesukuntaaru. kaani anta varaku enduku aagalekapoyaaru ante, ee lopu vere vaallatho pelli ekkada chesestaaro ani. I wish you read those days papers again.
telivi leni vayasulo pelli ante naa uddesyam, ashta varshaath bhaveth kanyaa , ani kaadandi.
memu preminchaam ante, meeku maturity ledu antaaru kadaa. daani gurinchi. mari preminche maturity lekapote, ante oka manishini artham chesukoleka pote, mari pelli chesukoni bharya/bhartha gaa badhyatalu elaa nirvartistaaru?
Chirunavvutho lo cheppinattu, oka manishini artham chesukovadaaniki enni rojulu kaavaali, I mean enta samayam padtundi anukuntaaru cheppandi? konta mandi to manaki parichayam ayinaa koddi rojullone, sneham, aatmeeyataa bhaavam perugutaayi. mari konta mandi chaalaa yellagaa telisunnaa sneha bhaavam koodaa undadu, parichayam tappa. mari daanikemantaaru?
Premikulandaroo, Love at first sight anukuntunnaaraa?
Prema peruto koodaa mosaalu enno jarugutunnaayi. nenu oppukuntunnaanu. anta maatram cheta "Prema", "Premikulu" ane padaalani kincha paracha koodadani naa uddesyam.
I once again confess, I support Love marriages (when parents try to do our marraige with someone else forcibly) and Love cum Arranged Marriages( even if it takes a long time to wait and to convince, if the parents do not try to forcibly arrange our marriage with someone else, then lovers can prove their true love).
manaku, eduti vaariki manchi manasu untene saripodu, aa manasu loni bhaavaalu saripovaali.(same to same ave kaakapoyinaa, edo oka vishayamlo ekaabhipraayam undaali).
Arranged marriages lo koodaa artham chesukogaligithe, ok. Kaanee chaalaa drawbacks unnaayi. I wish you read my story, "Name this story" and add your comments.
Last but not the least, Happy married life is pure destiny, even if it is arranged or love. eppudu okari vaipu ninche bandhaanni nilupukovaalane prayatnam enno rojulu saagadu. kaabatti iddariki vivaha vyavastha patla, okari patla, garava bhaavam undaali. Jeevithaanni anandamayam chesukovaalane korika, artham chesukone manasu, sardukupoye tatvam undaali.
Posted by: Ms. Prasanthi Uppalapati At: 6, Sep 2002 10:07:35 PM IST
let me know answers plzz.
Ilanti love ee kalthi, corrupt kalam lo dorukuthundatara...ante ippudu kalam corrupt ani meeru decide chesaaraa??
brathakataniki love okkate chaladu kada,individuality [job]vunnappudaithe adi life ni happy ga vunchuthundi.....ante okari ki job unte manam valla ni love cheyyavachu annamata..repati nundi love ki first qualification JOB ani pedadaamaa..LoL.
individuality braket lo job..ee rendu okataa??Job chese prati okkadiki individuality unnatlaa??
Posted by: Mr. kalyan chakravarthy chalasani At: 6, Sep 2002 10:04:32 PM IST
matter ki vaste...Love marraiges r good.iddaru manchi gaa okarini okaru artham chesukuntaaru.tana rendo sagam positives, negatives tanaki munde telusu kabatti future lo elaanti problem raakundaa zagratha gaa kudaa untaaru....
dinilo koncham drawback undi....Devdas-parvathi,salim-anarkali taruvata ee earth meeda manchi love pair ledu.ippudu andaru edo oka swartham kosam love chestunnaaru.
(nenu kudaa)
konta mandi love ni spare gaa kudaa unchukuntunnaaru...so, ee Love anna word ni(Vision 2020 love)marriage ki link chesi ilaa cheap gaa discuss cheyyakudadu.
Arranged marrieges kudaa ok..not bad.
kakapote ikkada time takkuva untundi..okarini okaru artham chesukunelopu..pillalu..badhyata..inkaa chalaa chalaa vachestaayi..manaki manchi manassu unte ee marriage ayina OK...lol.
Posted by: Mr. kalyan chakravarthy chalasani At: 6, Sep 2002 8:31:51 PM IST
Too much..ikkada andaru He ani arguments chestunnaaru..plz, he ani vadoddu...They anandi.
Posted by: Mr. kalyan chakravarthy chalasani At: 6, Sep 2002 7:09:35 PM IST
Udyogam raani vaallu, chaduvukune vaallu premincharaa? vaallevaru true love cheyarane anukuntunnaaraa?
Jobs vochina vaallandaru, okappudu chaduvukune vaare kadaa. mana vyaktitvam chaduvuto mudipadi ledaa?
Good Education is not the one which teaches, but the one which inculcates the desire to learn.
The Essence of all Education must be the development of Character.
mari individuality perigite tappa. Yuvatha ki tama jeevita bhaagaswaamini taamu ennukune hakku enduku undakoodadu?
Oka vela aa telivi vaariki raaledu anukunte, mari telivi leni vayasulo pelli cheyachaa?
Posted by: Ms. Prasanthi Uppalapati At: 6, Sep 2002 4:46:17 PM IST
chaduvukune vaallu ante, evarandi? maturity ledaa? standards undavaa?
negative gaane enduku aalochinchaali?manchi udyogaalu sampaadinche pelli chesukuntaaru.
meeru adigina question mari arranged marriages ki koodaa apply avutundi. pelli kudiri,pelli jarigentavaraku baagaane undi, tarvata nija swaroopam bayata pedithe?
Love marriage ante, okari vyaktitvaaniki, okari pravartanaki, marokaru mugdhulai abhimaaninchi, jeevana sahacharyam korukovadam. okarante, okariki prema, gauravam undadam. okari abhipraayaalaku, swaatantryaaniki marokaru viluva ivvadam. etuvanti paristitulu edurainaa kalise undadam.(vidipovaali ane aalochana asalu raakoodadu). Prema lo swaartham untundi. manake sontham kaavaalane swaartham.(ofcourse one-way ayithe konta mandi magavaallu acids poyadam, champadam laantivi chestuntaaru. mallee nannu purusha dweshi anakandi. endukante alaa purushula meeda acid poyadam leda, prema peru cheppi tama feelings to aadukone vaallani, inta varaku ye ammayainaa champindaa? so nenu nijame cheppaanu) True Love ayithe, kula mataalni, aasti paastulni, anda chandaalni,pattinchukodu.
Ayinaa love gurinchi define cheyadam goppa goppa vaarike saadhyam kaaledu. nannu define cheyamante elaagandi. nenedo naakantoo konni nischitaabhipraayaalunnaa chaalaa maamoolu ammaayini.
Posted by: Ms. Prasanthi Uppalapati At: 6, Sep 2002 4:43:12 PM IST
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