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Pre marital sex agreeable up to a limit where arranged marriages agrees to that effect. Manasulu kalisina manushula madhya ! Tanuvulu okataina tappu ledu, kaani aa tappu jeevitha bandham kavaali. Pelli ki mundu kalisina tanuvulu pelli tarvaatha aa teepi gurthu jeevithantham teeyani gurthu ga madilo unchukoni kala kaalam kalisi undaali. Premalo ituvantivi aakarshanku lobadi untayi kaabatti veetini encourage cheyaka povatam melu. Yemantaaru?

Posted by: Mr. N.B.Sudhakar Rao At: 27, Jun 2003 7:50:45 PM IST

Hear Hear Hima Samira!!! Great saying. But, toli rAtri endari vishayam lO saphalamavutunnaTlu? Experience lEni Programmer Coding chEstE elA unTundO alAnE unTundi. dAntO ammAyi lO asamtRupti modalavutundi. I bhAvanatO abbAyilu mundE anubhavam kOsam pAkulADitE, nETi ammAyilEmO dorikADulE bakarA gADu, mana saradAlu tIrchukundAmanO marEdaina kAraNam vallanO mudE ruchi chUsEstunnAru. indulO abbAyila tappO ammAyila tappO undani kAdu, mIru cheppinaTlu renDu tanuvulu kAvAlannaTlu, iddari tappU undi. kAnI konchem jAgrattagA unDAlsindi ammAyilE, vALLu chanuvivvaka pOtE abbAyilaki avakASam rAdu. avakASam rAkapotE abbAyilu manchivALLalA migilipOyE sandarbhAlu chAlA ekkuva. appuDu mIranna mallelu, siggulu, vennela, pAlu - nILLu - tEne annI sambhavam. nA uddESam lO I vishayam lO ammAyilanE blame chEstA I'm sorry to say this. But this is FACT.

Posted by: Durga Prasad At: 27, Jun 2003 10:17:02 AM IST

There is nothing wrong in pre-marital sex till both the parties participate willingly. Of course there is a taboo in our society in olden days gals used to get married before puberty hence they start enjoying sex immediately after puberty. Now a days both gals and guys get married only in late 20's and as sex is a biological need pre-marital sex is accepted. and our society has dubious distinction of maintaning double standards and hypocracy. On one hand they treat it as a malice and r filled with all erotic thoughts, this is especially true with many gals and some guys. Based on survey it is found that 80% of Indian females and male r not satisfied with their sex lives, the reason is simple- Its becoz discussion regarding sex is refrained in our society and India is No.1 in AIDS and sex related diseases becoz of lack of awareness about sex. Extra and Pre- marital sex is nothing wrong. If we see the experience throughout the world there is less violence related to sex after free sex was accepted in their society, especially after the sex movement in 50's in america. In India there is a ban on Prostitution and pornography and the society doesn't approve pre and extramarital sex. But if we make a survey we will find it to our surprise that India has the highest pre and extra-marital sex. The points to ponder are: 1) Why should our society disapprove the most natural pleasure while accepting Cigarettes and alcohol which effect health in a bad way? 2) Why is pre-marital sex wrong when our legal provisions state that willful sex between two consenting unmarried adults is not illegal? 3) What will we attain just remaing virgin and thoughts filled with all sex till late 20's ? 4) If we see our past our society is filled with lots of examples of pre and extra-marital sex? What for is the institution of Devadasi, Harem of kings, erotic figures on the temple walls, Kamasutra and koksastra?

Posted by: Mr. Suresh P At: 27, Jun 2003 8:08:31 AM IST

hahaah......ivi questions kadandi na doubts..life gurinchi nakunaa pedda pedda doubts me lanti jivitha poosthakani baga ardham chesukunnavallu tirchalisna doubts... ok then come to your own point...when u r in love u have to see ur partner also .. how u can think that u will tell what ever u like and hope the opposit wont get hurt by ur words....there is nothing in this world which cannot be attracted in one are another way. if not we might not have politicans,filmstars.... if we are friends might be our opinions will be same and there wont be much discusion abt this topic..i think the ppl who have same thinking will become close friends.... even though yevari abhipraayaalu vaariki vunna valla idaru kalsi jivinchali anukunte either should have to change.... supposee meeku nagarjuna movie choodalani vundi anukondi..me variki chiranjivi movie choodalani vundi anukondi...so either have to compromise....antegani nagarjuna chiranjivi kalisi natinche varaku wait chestu vundalem kada.... so either of them compromise ayi chiranjivi cinemaki velthe no problem.but ikade ego addu vastundi...mukyam ga magavallaki...they ususally brought up like that...so he want to win his word.ofcouse pellayina kothallo ayithe magarjuna movie ke veldham antaru valla kotha wife meeda mojuthono ,premathono... alani aadavallku ego vundadu ani nenu antaledu...they will also ego in some things .... now a day girls also equal to man...so more ego questions arises between couples... Cheppakada love at first sight meeda maaana abipraalu 2 rails lantivi avi epudu kalavvu and one can't change ones opinion that much easily like 2 strong minds like us... 'You pile up enough tomorrows, and you'll find you've collected a lot of empty yesterdays'. yes u r correct ...at the same time with out planning if u do some thing...it will be like building a house with pile of cards.which may fall at any time.For the thinks you want to achive in life planning is important..but for the things which god want to impose on u nothing is important ... as u have to talk it whether u want it or not.bcoz god is imposing on u u cannot deny either... hahah as far as u concerend you cannot think like me bcoz u r bounded to society ,cantraisnts and so many other factors...you want to be frank but u are afraid of the truth...may be not afraid of truth but u r not ready to face it.... if you are happy with your own feeling than it will be great....everybody wants to be happy. And i say u r lucky one r another way....so plz dont think much abt this discussion and get headache ... I dont want to be the casue of ur sadness.... PS: FACTs are temporary, TRUTH is Eternal. FACTs are of immediate relevance, Of immediate significance. TRUTH is of permanent relevance, Of permanent significance. FACTs have to be mastered- to be able to work effectively in 'this' moment. TRUTH has to be realized - to be able to work meaningfully in 'all' moments.

Posted by: Mr. M.S.Reddy At: 27, Jun 2003 6:02:50 AM IST

Ok hima garu, "When we love, it isn't because the person's perfect, it's because we learn to see an imperfect person perfectly." How many ppl are following this...no body is perfect ani telisi kooda y we want to see our partner to be perfect .atleast not to be perfect may be he/she thinks perfect and wants the partner to be like him/her. See i practically saw ppl fallen in love with other even though they are already in love. induku cinema prabavam vallameeda vundemo naku ayithe teliyadu kani..i know and saw with my own eyes..inka meeru namakapothe i cannot do anything.that doesnt mean i dont exposed to different cultures.i almost spend last 10 years in different regions in india and outside also and i saw them in india also...in western culture its all common and they wont mind of it until they got married. Vallu ala enduku chesaru ante no body have answer for that.... Poets,novelists rasinatu kadu kani practical life lo kooda okkosari inkokarini istapadtham..adi enduku ela ante no body can define..a istam preama kavochu...aradhana kavochu...kamam kavouchu...again that depends upon individual thinking.... to be frank i wont see much movies and i wont read novels too,to get impressed and do like that. Even though i read also i have enough maturity to decide what is wrong or right regarding life. See we both arguing on the one topic....becoz we dont know each other and we dont have any relation.. ade if we both r friends then this discussion might be in another way....am i correct... alantapudu yepudu choodani,matladani vallani mariage chesukunapudu how u can asure that valla abiprayalu same ga vuntayi...iddaru kalisi jivinchali ante enni abiprayaloathi adjust kavali.. how many ppl have that adjustable mind and soul....alanti adjustment mind vunte y so many divorce cases now a day... Ok inka love visyam lo love at first sight ani guddiga namme mansthatwam nadi kadu....no more arguments abt it... okey vyakithini love chesthe valla imperfect also seems to be perfect.. entha mandi girls tagina mogudu intiki vasthe samasaram cheyagalaru.... he is not imperfect ani telisi vaditho jivitham gadapagalara... 1/2 pre,malu ,1/4 premalu vundavu annaru..ante meeru okarini choodagane 100% love putestunda... leka parichyam perige koddi prema pudutunda... edyaina time gadichekoddi pergutundi.... The matters related to living things only happens by the time ,either it may grow r degrade . Pratical ga think chesthe telustundi love,life,relations gurnchi...u may call me materliast....but i think more practicle..... Last ga okka question for all ppl ...okkarayina gundemeeda cheyi vesukoni chepamandi life lo tanu ye magadini choosi istapadaledu ani kani e ammayini choosi istapadaledu kani....before marriage...or after marriage... ala istapadani vallu antu bahu kodi mandi vuntaremo..... PS: Think Practically.Live practically...Life is not in dreams but life is in the way u live...

Posted by: Mr. M.S.Reddy At: 26, Jun 2003 6:22:06 AM IST

The institution of marriage system is symbolic of civilisation of the human society. It is the faith between the spouses and the purity between them that forms the edifice of this unique relationship of a man and his wife. God has gifted human beings with a superior brain and the discretionary faculties. Therefore a human being must clearly be different from the "animals". I am strongly against pre-marital/Extramarital sex. Hope everyone understands the problems of indiscretion.

Posted by: Mr Apparao Ryali At: 25, Jun 2003 3:08:04 PM IST

Okey mari manasuku society ki ela sambandam... society bayamtho chesthe adi manaspoortiga yela avutundi... naku ee roju okati cheyali anipisthe adi cheyakoodadu ani society ante ela... society ante evaru...majarity of the ppl kada...so majority of the ppl cheyatam valle kada now a days love marriages ni parents accept chestunaru...maralantapudu idi tappu ani decide cheyataniki manam evaram,... MEeru cheppinatluga evari interst meeda vallaku manasu vunte y so many abartions .. Recent ga Kamasutra oka survey chesinidi...andulo 40% of the ppl living in cites have premartial sex ani telisindi..ante a 40% ppl ki manasu ledana leka just korika tirchukovataniki chesarana.... Ee topic choosi entha mandi ladies dare ga matladagalgutunanru,.... Meeru anna a AIDS mukyamga prostitution valla ....sex gurinchi awarness lekapovatam vallaa... How many ppl dont have boy firneds and girls frineds before marriage now a days...

Posted by: Mr. M.S.Reddy At: 25, Jun 2003 11:04:00 AM IST

yevari opinions yelaantivainaa, andulo manasu untundi kadaa sreeni garu. Okallaki baagaa dabbu sampaadinchaalane korika unte, daani meede 'manasu' untundi. okallaki chakkani bhaagaswaami kaavaalanukunte, aa 'togetherness' meede 'manasu' untundi. okallu IAS officer kaavaali anukunte, daani meede 'manasu' untundi. No doubt that it is a personal opinion. But when we put it discussion, we mean to discuss this with respect to society. Whether that is good for society or not. Icecream, Life Partner okatenaa? In fact, manasula kalayika gaa undadaaniki, Arranged Marriage ayinaa, Love Marriage ayinaa koodaa, mundu okari nokaru artham chesukoni, kalisi jeevichadam ni alavaatu chesukovadam. poortigaa artham chesukoni, differences ni tolerate chesukuntoo, taginanta adjust avutoo, chakkani aatmeeyata yerparachukunnaaka, 'saareerika kalayika' unte appudu ado 'issue' laage undadu. Pre-Marital sex ye rakamgaanoo, yevarikee (adi abbaayainaa, ammaayi ayinaa) manchidi kaadu. Anduke kadaa, mari AIDS vijrumbhistondi. Yeduru choodadamlo yento aanandam untundi. kaabatti jeevitamlo alaanti time vachevaraku(marriage ayyevaraku) vechi choosi, mana partner ni soul mate chesukunnaaka, sexual relationship yerparuchukunte, andarikee manchidi.

Posted by: Ms. Prasanthi Uppalapati At: 25, Jun 2003 10:36:49 AM IST

Okey good.. let me talk abt it more eloborately... How many girls r boys getting the so called dreamed partner.. Manam peddavari matalu vini pelli chesukuntanpudu...how we can get a partner who is in our OUT SKETCH.... Pelli ayaka kooda evarino voohinchukoni chesthe apudu adi vyabicharam kada mari.... Nijmayina premaku ardham ayithe naku teliyadu kani...mansulu kalisthe prema ante oke.. but love at first sight anedi nenu nammanu...bcoz love at first sight lo edo oka akarshana valla[some thing like a ammayi navu choosoo, inakedo choose love lo padatamm...]iddaru mansulu kalavali ante vallaki madya kontha time vundali. okaritho okaru matladukovali...okari istalu ayistalu teluskovali...apudu kaligede nijmayina prema..for that it may take years... anduke pelli ayaaka chinnaga wife and husband chala deggara avutharu...oka stage lo okarini okaru vidchipetti vundaleni parisithi vastundi.... love chesukunapudu kaligedi half prema matrame..bcoz apudu tana lover yokka +ve points matrame telusthayi..kani -ve points kanapadavu...bcoz love lo vunnapudu vallu koodi samayam matrame kalisi gaduputharu[ye college lono,cinemalono,park lono tappa inak time dorakadu..] so once marriage ayyaka kalisi jivistunapudu telusthayi okari lopalu okariki.. apudu mellaga godavalu prarambam ayi chivariki divorce varaku vasthayi... PS:" A successful marriage requires falling in love many times, always with the same person. " Yes i agree with u.but mansuki okkale nachalni rule ledu... manam icecream shop ki velli oka flavour taste chestham.rendo roju inko flavouer chesthe adi dinikante baguntundi... alanatapudu just oka icecream visaym lone mana manasu manaku teliyakunda enno istalu padinapudu... how can we control our mind in real life... sare inka nenu viritho saripetukovali ane manasthatwam enthamandiki vuntundi...ala sari petkune manasthatwam vunte y so many illegal relations in this world...... SO what i am telling is sex are any other thing it is indvidual thinking... For some people sex anedi rendu manasula kaiyaka ..adi pelli ki mundu kani pelliki taruvatha kani... For some people sex anedi pelliki mundu tappu bcoz of society restrictions... inkokariki sex anedi oka sariraka korikanu samtrupithi paruchukovatam kavochu... alantapudu where is manasula kalayakaa.... plz dont misunderstand me if i talk bluntly...

Posted by: Mr. M.S.Reddy At: 25, Jun 2003 10:15:39 AM IST

Hima Samira garu meeru Yaddabapudi,Challa novel ekkuva chaduvuthara...

Posted by: Mr. M.S.Reddy At: 25, Jun 2003 8:26:38 AM IST

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