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General Forum: Love | | Expectations from your life partner.... | |
| Rate yourself by circling the appropriate number: 5–excellent; 4–very good; 3–good; 2–poor; 1–failing.
If u r married u can judge urself howfar u r following these... if u r unmarried u can judge howfar u r willing to follow these... These are not my own points... I read somewhere longback n thought of posting here now...
For men:
I see myself as having left father and mother and as bonded to my wife. (having left means not ignoring them)
1 2 3 4 5
I see my wife as one with me in every phase of my life.
1 2 3 4 5
I do my best to be faithful to her in thought as well as in deed.
1 2 3 4 5
I provide my wife the kind of loving leadership.
1 2 3 4 5
I often sacrifice my interests for my wife’s well-being.
1 2 3 4 5
I often tell her that I love her and do little things to show it.
1 2 3 4 5
I’m concerned about her feelings, and I listen when she talks about them.
1 2 3 4 5
I try to say something nice to my wife every day and don’t go to sleep angry.
1 2 3 4 5
I do not use my wife’s shortcomings as excuses for my own failures.
1 2 3 4 5
I talk about spiritual matters with her, and I often pray for her and with her.
1 2 3 4 5
Now have your wife evaluate you(If u r married evaluate urself). Be open to areas that need improvement.
For women:
I do not let myself think that I have married the wrong person.
1 2 3 4 5
I have left my father and mother and share identity with my husband.
1 2 3 4 5
I am committed to making our marriage last until one of us dies.
1 2 3 4 5
I do not use sexual fulfillment as a weapon to get my own way.
1 2 3 4 5
I am willing to submit to my husband’s responsibility of headship.
1 2 3 4 5
I feel that inner beauty is more important than physical attractiveness.
1 2 3 4 5
I show respect for my husband in my attitudes and my actions.
1 2 3 4 5
I do little things for him that I know will please him.
1 2 3 4 5
I don’t use my husband’s short-comings as an excuse for my failures.
1 2 3 4 5
I see myself as my husband’s spiritual companion, and I pray for him and with him.
1 2 3 4 5
Now ask your husband to rate you in these areas and compare notes (If u r married evaluate urself). Be honest, and be open to improvement.
Posted by: Jonnalagadda Jonnalagadda At: 13, Sep 2003 1:03:08 PM IST
most unexpected pleasent surprise !
Posted by: Mr. jogarao pilla At: 13, Sep 2003 12:21:44 PM IST
definetly not cry :)
Posted by: Mr. Sagar M At: 13, Sep 2003 1:12:01 AM IST
senior yendulo.?????
Posted by: Mr. manoopuli At: 12, Sep 2003 12:47:33 PM IST
I totally agree with experienced Senior man Tiger manoopuli.
Posted by: Durga Prasad At: 12, Sep 2003 12:46:11 PM IST
don't expect more......
later
upset.....
Posted by: Mr. manoopuli At: 12, Sep 2003 12:25:25 PM IST
Expectations alone will not suffice learn to evaluate those what being expected and predict what the partner will expect from you.
Posted by: Mr. M Kumar N At: 12, Sep 2003 9:06:10 AM IST
woh apni jindagi jeeye...aur mujhe mere jindagi jeene de :)
Posted by: Saleem At: 12, Sep 2003 8:03:23 AM IST
manchi nITinI, challaTi gAlinI evarU tiTTukOru himA.
I would expect :
1) Shouldn't object for me outing with friends.
2) Shouldn't question about my late coming to home
3) Should always allow me for playing cards
4) Shouldn't pick up my calls if I'm unable to attend
5) Shouldn't ask for add-on card for my credit card
6) Should never question me about my savings and expenditure
7) Should never ever try to track my bank/credit card transactions
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Posted by: Durga Prasad At: 12, Sep 2003 1:01:19 AM IST
I call Mr. Rao,
agni ki aajyam
Posted by: Mr. M Kumar N At: 11, Sep 2003 9:49:41 PM IST
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