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General Forum: Current 'Affairs' | | varakatnam | |
| a marriage without dowry is not in parents hands. It has to be supported by youth. even if a boy's/girl's parent supports dowry, why can't boy/girl oppose it? they can easyly convince their parents? I hope we will see the kind of new andhra we r hoping for.
Posted by: ravi At: 24, May 2002 10:04:03 AM IST
LOL. tell me about it! finally a girl with a sense of humor!!
Posted by: dhara d At: 24, May 2002 0:48:32 AM IST
you go girl! Swapna. Terrific answer!!
Posted by: dhara d At: 24, May 2002 0:33:37 AM IST
Hello Swapna,
This problem is not because of only men or only women . one of my friend's wife is proud that she gave 50 lacs as dowry and she'll tell that as if it's an achievement.. when i asked her what about the other girls who cannot afford that money then u know what she said.... adi valla karma ani... so ilanti vallu unnatha varaku dowry problem slove kaadu .
generally i feel like it's 70%abbayi parents and 30% ammai parents who are encouraging this , u'll be surprised to know if any guy don't want to take dowry then people think that either he's handicapped or he's impotent (this is 100% true). so may be our generation can stop this but i'm not seeing any sloution in the near future (if any miracle occurs and all parents relize that they're doing wrong or all girls and guys will get Love marriage) . in some love marriage cases also people are demanding for dowry which is nothing but cheating.
anyway i think it's on the youth to eradicate this sin from the society and i hope this generation can do that.
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Posted by: Mr Telugu Tejam At: 23, May 2002 10:56:15 PM IST
OK LETS HOPE U WILL BE NOT ONE OF THEM.
Posted by: Mr. M.S.Reddy At: 23, May 2002 10:07:19 PM IST
Hello madam,
ini cheputunnaru if u r misses then meeru yentha petti mee hubby ni konnaru cheppandi..
i dont support any of these views .bcoz what ever is going we cant stop it until all get educated and change there minds.first try to change our society by helping poor and later everthing will be get fixed one by one.
Posted by: Mr. M.S.Reddy At: 23, May 2002 9:54:37 PM IST
Hello All,
Dowry anukovadam lo bada ga vunte, treat it as gift from you FIL.
Howz that?
Posted by: Mr. Cool_Reddy_Guy cool_guy At: 20, May 2002 1:40:36 AM IST
I agreee partially with anonymous user that
girl should be independent, at the same time
why boys are not bold enough to take care of
a girl, who is willing to come along with him
for life, no matter, what is ahead of her!
That unconditional dedication is one unique
thing of our marriage system, where varakatnam
don't dominate the marriage.
Posted by: Raghu Musunuru At: 3, May 2002 3:35:30 PM IST
Varakatnam is not an issue at all now, if the girl is
well educated. One other side of it is, the financial
security she should have, in case, something goes wrong
in the marriage. Which means that a girl should be
educated to have her own personality, where she too
can have her own say in deciding her future partner.
And if a boy is willing to share household burdens
and the situaion is such that he con't manage the
family expenses alone(which is a common thing in metros now),
what he can do with a girl who earns nothing but
sit idle in the home? He naturally prefers a working girl.
So what is left girls who are not willing to work or not
able to earn but wait for a husband who can take care of them.
If at all girl is not good enough for such boys, the only thing
that can find bride grooms is money(as a future security on girls name
for the family and the generations ahead or if the girl is
weak enough , for his luxuries).
Am I thinking right?
Posted by: Raghu Musunuru At: 2, May 2002 1:35:58 PM IST
Salute you sir!!!!!!!!
Posted by: Ms Samatha G At: 3, Mar 2002 8:25:15 PM IST
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