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love for sex & sex for love ??

Modified version of Prasanthi's poem. It eaqually sounds good if men & women are interchanged, isn't it? idi svOtkarsha(sonta DabbA) ani telusu kAnI, entainA purushAhankAramu kalavADini kadA, andukE konchem sonta DabbA vEsukunTunnA ("You" means representative for Wives. ”Him" is a representative for Husbands.) You want you to be lovely Do you ever notice? The love of a man when he cares about you while you are looking at him with love The love of a man when he is thinking of you in solitude You want him to be healthy Do you ever notice? The sense of strength in a man when he is surrounded by you The spirit of work in him even he is ill when he is in your company You want him to be happy Do you ever notice? The feeling of joy and gay when he walks in hand with you along the way the sense of pride and merry to hear all that you say, to share your heart When can you know? A man feels you as his real wealth you are the source of his happiness and health It is your love, rather than the sense of duty that make him the real lovely.

Posted by: Durga Prasad At: 11, Aug 2003 3:36:52 PM IST

COMMITTING -- it depends on the individual perceptions again, it might differ based on their personality ( Inner/psychological personality )

Posted by: Mr. Kalyan Chakravarthy At: 11, Aug 2003 2:05:59 PM IST

Dear Friends, Nice sharing all your thoughts. most of your thoughts are wuite reasonable and are very much appreciated. But why dont you think in one more angle where you have all ignored to pursue, except for MAHI. In My view LOVE and SEX are integral parts and which lead to eachother no matter which comes first. both of them are the forms of expressing the same feeling LOVE. Some has their own expression and definition of love, there is nothing, which is fixed definition for love. Some express thru words, some thru actions. In the category of expressing thru actions, one form is expressing with your TOUCH & BODY. I beleive very much in body chemistry and the intimacy it develops between people (its proven fact too). SEX is as HOLY as much as LOVE ( Ms apna ). The holiness of anything depends upon the intention of that person who is committing that act at that point of time. Yugandhar, sexual feeling is a biological need, apetite is phsiological/motabolic need. All the needs are common to humans( male or female ). But the ratio differs from person to person but not based on the gender of the person. Folks, Throw some light on the matter where u think i have gone wrong. welcome your comments cheers Kalyan

Posted by: Mr. Kalyan Chakravarthy At: 11, Aug 2003 1:59:11 PM IST

Love is a foolish trick of mind it absent the mind BUT... Sex is real trick (technic )of body :-D (a JISUM KA BHOOK)

Posted by: Mr. manoopuli At: 11, Aug 2003 1:30:47 PM IST

dear readers, extremely "sorry" ..when i press "refresh" it was posted again ..sorry for the inconvenience

Posted by: Mr. Murali Mohan T At: 11, Aug 2003 1:26:07 PM IST

mari vaalliddaru ladies (article authour and murali friend) general statements pass cheyatam endhuku ?? mari adi thappu kaadhaa ?? kondaru anthe murali garu... vallu valla thoughts ni narrow chesukoni thamaku telisinde lokam anukoni chance dorikinappudalla lecturelu danchutuntaru... valla jeevitham inka anthe... they will not come to the reality forever...

Posted by: Jonnalagadda Jonnalagadda At: 11, Aug 2003 1:23:11 PM IST

" men love for sex " anedhi 100% true kaavaali ante "women sex for love" koodaa 100% true kaavaali(since both statements are given by same persons)... sex kosam premanu maargam gaa enchukovatam entha thappo(gents case lo) premanu pondataaniki sex ni ekaika maargam gaa enchukovatam (ladies case lo)athi bhayankaramaina thappani naa abhipraayam... mari just LOVE pondataaniki SEX ni panam gaa pettatam enti ... premanu pondataaniki eduti vaariki thamanu arpinchatam kaakundaa vere maargaaley levaa ??... prasanthi gaaru cheppinattu ""Even most of the men also the same. Reserved only for wives. But few male are not like that."" mari chaalaa FEW ani mention chesaaru kadhaa ...ante % chalaa chaalaa thakkuva ani artham... mari vaalliddaru ladies (article authour and murali friend) general statements pass cheyatam endhuku ?? mari adi thappu kaadhaa ?? gents sex kosame bhaaryalani premistaaru anukundaam ...adhi nijamaithey ... gents ki vaalla bhaaryala daggara vaallu korukunna sukham dorakakapothey ? vaallu morokkarini preminchaali ...akkadaa (second trail lo)vaallu expect chesinantha sukham dorakakapothey marokkarini preminchaali ....and so on ... till they get full-fledged satisfaction in sex which they have expected from their life partner , they should continue the trails ... mari alaa jaruguthondhaa samaajam lo ? alaa aithey teenage love stories kante koodaa "MARRIED LOVE STORIES" veedhi veedhinaa konni lakshalalo kanapadevi ..kaanee alaa jaraguthondhaa? jaragatam ledhu ani naa abhipraayam... ika ladies vishayaanikoddaam ... vaallu sex dwaaraa premanu ponduthaaru annaaru ... baagundhi .mari ladies vaallu voohinchinantha premanu vaalla bhartha daggara pondalekapothey ? vere vaallatho sex ki siddam avuthaaraa premakosam ?? (sorry ilaa raayakoodadhu ..but discussion kaabatti raayavalasi vachindhi ..gents gurinchi alaa raasinappudu ladies gurinchi koodaa raayaali ...lekunte on-sided antaaru) ...but alaa jaraguthondhaa ...jaragatam ledhu ani naa abhipraayam... mari ilaanti sensitive issues lo general statements pass cheyakoodadhu ... sex anedhi gents ki entha mukhyamo ladies ki anthakante ekkuva mukhyam and vice versa.. prema anedhi ladies ki entha mukhyamo gents ki anthakante ekkuva mukhyam and vice versa... oka vishayam raayaalani vundhi ... alaa raayatam thappo oppo theliyadhu ...thappu ayithey kshaminchandi... eee topic meedha ...married people(both gents and ladies) aithey clear gaa cheppagalaru vaalla views ...enthamandhi aadavaallu chepthaaro "vaalla bharthalu vaallani sex kosame premistunnaaru ani" ...veellu(ladies) SEX anabade maargam dwaaraa vaalla husbands nunchi aasinchina sthaaayilo premanu pondagaluguthunnaaraa ani?? enthamandhi bharthalu chebuthaaro "vaalla bhaaryalu premanu pondataaniki sex nu maargam gaa enchukuntunnaarani" ?? enthamandhi bharthalu just sex kosam bhaaryani premistunnaarani ?? ... married people aithey vaalla anubhavam dwaaraa thelusukunna vishayam chebuthaaru ...manaku(unmarried) aaalochanakante aavesam ekkuva vuntundhi ... aavesam lo manishi aalochinche shakthi kolpothaadata ... so let the married people say what actually they came to know in their married life ...

Posted by: Mr. Murali Mohan T At: 11, Aug 2003 1:21:56 PM IST

Good posting by Murali... Also Mahi's views are appreciated.

Posted by: Durga Prasad At: 11, Aug 2003 1:20:21 PM IST

ha ha ha nice coment Mr.shameless. Ms.prasanthi, i agree with your thought and opinions. those words come out of experience dont you think so . if its in the context of a husband and a wife then this issue can be well discussed by husbands and wives. i see no room for the people who have not yet married. if its between just a man and a woman then its difficult to judge. everyone is different with different perception and thoughts. culture has a an impact on this kind of relationship. for ex.. if you see the people from west.. their love starts with sex.. and its not what we do in india .

Posted by: Mr. MAHESWARA MAHI At: 11, Aug 2003 1:11:22 PM IST

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