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General Forum: Love | | Expectations from your life partner.... | |
| what do u mean Mr.Madhukumar
Posted by: Mr. jogarao pilla At: 11, Sep 2003 6:04:00 PM IST
Mr. Joga Rao are you putting some " DURGA GHEE" . I will confirm later.
Posted by: Mr. M Kumar N At: 11, Sep 2003 5:08:01 PM IST
Mr. Joga Rao are you puing some " DURGA GHEE" . I will confirm later.
Posted by: Mr. M Kumar N At: 11, Sep 2003 5:07:44 PM IST
a very usefull exercise!
Posted by: Mr. jogarao pilla At: 11, Sep 2003 11:36:41 AM IST
Rate yourself by circling the appropriate number: 5–excellent; 4–very good; 3–good; 2–poor; 1–failing.
If u r married u can judge urself howfar u r following these... if u r unmarried u can judge howfar u r willing to follow these... These are not my own points... I read somewhere longback n thought of posting here now...
For men:
I see myself as having left father and mother and as bonded to my wife. (having left means not ignoring them)
1 2 3 4 5
I see my wife as one with me in every phase of my life.
1 2 3 4 5
I do my best to be faithful to her in thought as well as in deed.
1 2 3 4 5
I provide my wife the kind of loving leadership.
1 2 3 4 5
I often sacrifice my interests for my wife’s well-being.
1 2 3 4 5
I often tell her that I love her and do little things to show it.
1 2 3 4 5
I’m concerned about her feelings, and I listen when she talks about them.
1 2 3 4 5
I try to say something nice to my wife every day and don’t go to sleep angry.
1 2 3 4 5
I do not use my wife’s shortcomings as excuses for my own failures.
1 2 3 4 5
I talk about spiritual matters with her, and I often pray for her and with her.
1 2 3 4 5
Now have your wife evaluate you(If u r married evaluate urself). Be open to areas that need improvement.
For women:
I do not let myself think that I have married the wrong person.
1 2 3 4 5
I have left my father and mother and share identity with my husband.
1 2 3 4 5
I am committed to making our marriage last until one of us dies.
1 2 3 4 5
I do not use sexual fulfillment as a weapon to get my own way.
1 2 3 4 5
I am willing to submit to my husband’s responsibility of headship.
1 2 3 4 5
I feel that inner beauty is more important than physical attractiveness.
1 2 3 4 5
I show respect for my husband in my attitudes and my actions.
1 2 3 4 5
I do little things for him that I know will please him.
1 2 3 4 5
I don’t use my husband’s short-comings as an excuse for my failures.
1 2 3 4 5
I see myself as my husband’s spiritual companion, and I pray for him and with him.
1 2 3 4 5
Now ask your husband to rate you in these areas and compare notes (If u r married evaluate urself). Be honest, and be open to improvement.
Posted by: Jonnalagadda Jonnalagadda At: 11, Sep 2003 11:34:01 AM IST
an idealistic approach! wish u good luck, ravindra!
Posted by: Mr. jogarao pilla At: 11, Sep 2003 11:26:55 AM IST
karyaeshu daasi ,Sayanaeshu rambha ,
bhojyaeshu maata laanTi ammayini !!
Posted by: Ravindra K At: 11, Sep 2003 11:20:23 AM IST
ok ok
Posted by: Ravindra K At: 11, Sep 2003 11:12:00 AM IST
/hello kiran ...how many families are having all this points in our society...???/
enni unnayi ani kadu ravindra... ila unte baguntundi ani... see the title "expectations"
Posted by: Jonnalagadda Jonnalagadda At: 11, Sep 2003 11:09:06 AM IST
aA very good and eloberate expectation , kiran.
transactional analysis, ravindra!
Posted by: Mr. jogarao pilla At: 11, Sep 2003 11:06:39 AM IST
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