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General Forum: Love | | love for sex & sex for love ?? | |
| Well, I agree with Ms Prasanthi, but only to some extent. Nothing is 100% true. Hence, whatever she said is also true to some extent and false to some extent.
[But woman are more particular about 'with whom' they are having sex. They preserve and confine all their feelings only for their husbands.]
If this is true, then pre-marital & extra-marital relations doesn't exist at all, right? As I've already posted long time ago somewhere, until woman allows men to proceed, it is absolutely impossible for men to have relation with a woman. If woman really, I repeat, REALLY preserve and confine her feelings only for her husband, how come these men can find women so easily for a part-time relation? I'm not saying, again, that men are "pavitrulu". No, I agree. It is the basic instinct/tendency of a man to get attracted to woman and want to possess her, but again it is not possible until she comes farword. Like I said earlier, men are changing now a days, trying to "understand" women more.
Pasanthi's peom, is good. Nice one. She can write similar one on men also, right? May I request Prasanthi to come out of her faminine views and look at those husbands who love their wifes to the core(I'm not talking about those men who go in search of temporary partner when his wife goes out of country on her business trip for 3-6 months), thinking about wife, how to keep her more happy...! One will definitely find such husbands. Also, we find those wives who keep husbands in their control... else, keep crying and giving hell to husbands(ofcourse the final weapon is keep him starve on bed). Then the behaviour of that husband gives the impression that "Men give love for sex". Prasanthi, please don't think all men are like DOGS who CAN have sex with ANYBODY. Nopes, I don't agree. There are several men who, kept mum, even when given an opportunity by women. Cheers.
BTW, I was kidding by saying that women don't speak truth. I like seeing feminists burst out!
Posted by: Durga Prasad At: 11, Aug 2003 12:48:46 PM IST
great views..keep it up prasanthi
especially your poems are simply amazing..great work..wish to see more and more poems from your heart :)
Posted by: Mr tulasiram pattigilli At: 11, Aug 2003 11:05:06 AM IST
Mr. Durga Prasad, what you mean by your statement? Ladies do speak truths. But you people can't digest, that is the problem.
I really agree with the statement of both the author and also the friend of Sri Murali Mohan.
Men give love for sex, women give sex for love.
Ofcourse, sensual pleasures are equal to both man and woman. But woman are more particular about 'with whom' they are having sex. They preserve and confine all their feelings only for their husbands.
Even most of the men also the same. Reserved only for wives. But few male are not like that.
It is true that men are more driven with physical passion.(I feel so).
What pleasure we can expect from the side of women without any lovable words from their respective husbands? How many men are showing concern for the feelings and emotions of women in this regard.(sensual pleasures). Whether they bother at all?
If men are concerned and wish that their wives also should be happy with the intercourse, then women also will find pleasure. Otherwise women feel it is just their duty to satisfy their husband's desire.
But one thing I can say, a man can be happy with a woman by making her happy and that happiness reflects on him in a higher proportion.
I request you to read my poem, 'To husbands all over the world'.
http://www.authorsden.com/visit/viewpoetry.asp?AuthorID=7336&id=10699
Posted by: Ms. Prasanthi Uppalapati At: 11, Aug 2003 10:49:09 AM IST
manishi manchoda kaada?? ane ?n ki answer cheppadam enta kastamo ilanti matters lo oka conclusion raavadam anthe kastam... it all depends upon character, age, etc and varies from person to person...
but upto my knowledge majority of men love for sex...
Posted by: Jonnalagadda Jonnalagadda At: 11, Aug 2003 10:42:10 AM IST
Do you expect ladies to tell the truth? C'mon Murali & Srinivas... don't be too optimistic!
Posted by: Durga Prasad At: 11, Aug 2003 10:20:38 AM IST
baboi nidrapotunan pulini leparu inka me istam...
sex anedi kani love anedi kani individual meeda adarapadi vuntundi....
kontha mandiki adi sariraka avasaram..mari konthamandiki adi manasutho kudukunna pani...
edi emayina rendu chetulu kalisthena kada chappudu...
iddariki kavalisnde kani adi ela recevie cheuskuntam anedi different ....
apude nenu matladithe bagodu...evaranna post chesaka apudu cheptha....
plz post ur opinios to my frd Muralis posting
Posted by: Mr. M.S.Reddy At: 11, Aug 2003 10:08:12 AM IST
:P
Posted by: Mr. M.S.Reddy At: 11, Aug 2003 10:02:54 AM IST
I have seen one telugu article a month ago, written by one lady(think it was in Eenadu-vasundhara) ..
In that it was given that ladies expect 3 things from their life partner ... 1)prema 2) odaarpu and 3) some thing related to feelings (i forgot )
and Gents also expect 3 things from their life partner 1)sex 2) and 3) i don't remember exactly
And i discussed it with one of my friends(lady-unmarried) ..i strongly opposed the statements given by the authour ...
And my friend has thrown one more general statement which gents can't even digest ..
i was astomished ...
Her statement was..
"Men love for Sex
Women sex for Love"
We argued for a long time on this issue ..but since topics like this will never end ..so we stopped at some point so that we didn't want unnecessary complications between us b'cos of somebody else's statements ...
Now the Question is that "Do gents love only for Sex ? and Ladies sex for love" ? How far is it true ...
Only these 2 are thinking like that ?
Or all ladies opinion is like that ?
or only few ladies have this opinion ?
Just i wanted to know ,how much % of ladies think like that
Since the statements are given by ladies ...preferably ladies readers are the correct jugdes to judge upon this issue ?
So opinions are welcome ...
Posted by: Mr. Murali Mohan T At: 11, Aug 2003 9:45:56 AM IST
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