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| Laxmi gaaru,
This is nice and I think ...
even husband, respects her love by saying her as his better half, he loves her but his responsibilities also counts here, which may make her think in other way. At this point if she understands him and shares his responsibiliteis then she is no more his better half, she becomes the one for him all his strength, health and wealth, this leads to a successful life.
In reality i donno what is missing. But i can't blame this bcoz of only h'bands or only wives, may be in some families its husbands and in some their counterparts.
May be majority is h'bands as our ancestors described how a wive shud be, but nobody said how h'band.
Posted by: Sreedhar G At: 12, Aug 2002 10:13:15 AM IST
("You" means representative for Husbands.
"She" is a representative for Wives.)
You want her to be beautiful
Do you ever notice?
The beauty of a woman when she feels shy
while you are looking at her with love
The beauty of a woman when she is
thinking of you in solitude
You want her to be healthy
Do you ever notice?
The sense of strength in a woman
when she is surrounded by you
The spirit of work in her even she is ill
when she is in your company
You want her to be happy
Do you ever notice?
The feeling of joy and gay
when she walks in hand with you along the way
the sense of pride and merry
to hear all that you say, to share your heart
When can you know?
A woman feels you as her real wealth
you are the source of her happiness and health
It is your love, rather than the sense of duty
that make her the real beauty.
(This poem is selected to be published in "Chaitanya Kavita" , a half-yearly poetry magazine,edited and published by Sri Tangirala Subbarao garu, along with my other two poems, "Web posting the Poetry" and "Education")
Posted by: Ms. Prasanthi Uppalapati At: 12, Aug 2002 8:36:28 AM IST
man's looks are not important for a woman. She needs someone whom she can trust and rest with. She needs reassurance that she has a man to take care of her (likes her from his heart) concerns. She falls in love with such guy who she finds a sacrificing and helping individual. Sex and attraction becomes secondary and of course also play an important role latter on to materialise into long term relationship or marriage.
Posted by: Mr. prasad raja At: 11, Aug 2002 7:55:25 AM IST
chaala vintaga undandi. magavaallaloni lopaalanu chepte, one sided comments antunnaaru. manchigaa undandi antunte, manchigaa artham chesukovadaaniki prayatnistunte, magavaallalo lopaalu unnaayi kadaa antunnaaru. elaagandi?
Anyway, nijame chaalaa mandi magavaallu women ni exploit chestunnaaru. This is 100% true. manchi uddesyaalu unde vaaru koodaa, aadavaarini sariga artham chesukovatam ledu. naa abhipraayaalanu, konni kathalugaa vraaddaamani undi. chadivi mee vimarsalani teliyacheyagalarani aasistaanu.
Posted by: Ms. Prasanthi Uppalapati At: 11, Aug 2002 6:58:17 AM IST
Nice reply Lakshmi prasanthi.
but dont youthink some men are still exploiting women by using the quotation Karyeshu Dasi ....etc.., along with their MCP attitude ??
I wished had known you long back when i tried to explain the same concept to one of my friends and could not convice her the meaning to the fullest extent.
Anyways , i am glad to know you atleast NOW.
Keep posting your nice views. I look forward for your postings.
regds
Kalyan
Posted by: Mr. Kalyan Chakravarthy At: 10, Aug 2002 9:24:54 PM IST
Three things she mainly wishes for:
1. He should love her and her only. He should express that also.I mean Romantic. The polite they say, the gentle the man, and truthful the love.
2. He should be individualistic. Take his own decisions and should spend quality time with her.
3. There should be no secrets. Everything must be shared. Be truthful.
These are the basic qualities she require in her hubby.
Remaining differs from person to person. Some want rich guys, some want artistic people, some love sensitive kind, some wish the guy to be well-educated, some like reserved guys etc., depending on the personal taste.
God has chosen someone for us. HE will tie us to that significant special.
So whether we like or not, we have to respect and accept the relationship formed by the marriage.
Generally, girls are expected to be "Satrupa" means seven forms.
Kaaryeshu Daasi, Karaneshu Mantri,Bhojyeshu maata,sayaneshu rambha,
Kshamaya Dharitri,(the remaining two I forget,I will write when I find them).
A woman should serve her husband in seven forms. As a servant in his work,
As a minister in his affairs, As a mother in taking care of(she should shower love as his mother while serving him food), As a Rambha(she is deemed as the prostitute for Gods) to satisfy his sensual needs(means a woman should satisfy her husband's sexual needs as if she is a prostitute(it is said that prostitutes do anything to attract males),As earth in patience(In our(Hindu) mythology, earth is the most patient one in the world. She bears the weight and also the digging her,discharging waste on her etc.,).
But I feel Men also need to pamper their wives(Only one please). Treat her as kid, accept her as mother at times, share feelings as a friend,Be a romantic lover and a faithful, concerning and caring husband.
There is a saying: Mudithal Nervaga raani vidya kalade muddaara nerpagan.
Means: Does there any education(skill) that a woman can't learn if she is taught with love?
So, if your woman is not compatible to you emotionally, tune her to your frequency with love. There is no woman in this world who can reject her husband's proposal or request, if he patiently explains her, say something with genuine love.
Spend quality time with her. Communicate,interact. If you need to study anything, lay on her lap and read or study by sitting beside her.If you want to listen to music, enjoy with her. If you need to do some work, involve her. Help her also in her work. Make her a part in each and everything you do.
When there is necessary communication and mutual trust between wife and husband, their relationship will be everblossoming and love be evergreen.
Posted by: Ms. Prasanthi Uppalapati At: 10, Aug 2002 8:25:58 PM IST
Ardhamu chesukune manchi manasu
Sense of security - financially, and emotionally
But of course there are certain limits to the financial security and that depends on each individual.
Posted by: Miss Madhavi Madhavi At: 10, Aug 2002 3:04:12 AM IST
wait for Nag's movie Manmadhudu to relese...bcaz i heard that its story has same point
ha ha ha
Posted by: Mr. Venkata Durga Prasad Rachabatthula At: 10, Aug 2002 2:46:41 AM IST
JAI-bABA
It is better to reserve this topic to ladies for comments.
Posted by: Mr dyvadhinam yaddanapudi At: 9, Aug 2002 11:53:30 PM IST
woman wants lots of security
social economuical and educational from man
Posted by: Mr chandrasekhar kuricherla pati At: 22, Apr 2002 7:05:14 PM IST
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