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General Forum: Current 'Affairs' | | "NO DOWRY CLUB"- Join the group of you are against dowry and give your own oath against dowry | |
| I did like to correct venu on 1 thing ,it isnt defect or refurbished items ,but seconds items .seconds items generally are new ,but do not carry a warrranty ,but that does not necessarily mean that the product is defective .
Posted by: Mr. Pit and the Pendulum At: 17, Jun 2005 10:07:15 PM IST
As Long As The Gal's Family Is Happy To Give/Share Their Property, I don't Think There Is A Problem In It.
Money Riped Through Force/Harrassment Is Considered Dowry In My Sense. Otherwise It's A Pure Share Of Property Given To Gal.
Is It Fair That A Boy Inherits Whole Property And Gal Doesn't Get Any ?
Posted by: Mr. Raj Raj At: 17, Jun 2005 9:47:18 PM IST
@harita
"If someone suspects something wrong with you because you don't want dowry, why get married to such a person? "
well ,if the same someone thinks she has to pay in order to get a "working" husband ,or her parents think they have to pay ,why should a groom forefeit money ?just because of stupid ideals ?
Posted by: Mr. Pit and the Pendulum At: 17, Jun 2005 9:40:42 PM IST
anduke defect items or refurbished items sale lo pettedi
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Who are being sold and who are buying here:) So ultimately who became the defect and refurbished items ?? :))))
Posted by: Ms. Prasanthi Uppalapati At: 17, Jun 2005 9:39:26 PM IST
Ok. Correction. One of the evils. But when compared to other evils, dowry is something which can be eradicated.
Regarding the situation, it just seems to be only for argument sake. Let us elaborate.
The So-called Education doesn't matter when compared to the general knowledge and common sense.
(To be frank, (I have double PG), I now feel that I badly lack common sense :) )
A girl who is not good in education does not necessarily mean she is poor in every other aspect. Read any 'exclusively for women' sections in any newspaper or magazine, you can find the successful women or creative women who do not have the university degrees.
Eating, Partying etc., is no strange for a girl of her age and having money. It doesn't mean she continue the same even after she becomes wife.
Regarding the physical attributes, whatever, it depends on the onlookers. Beauty lies in the eyes of the beholder. May be she have a strong character or something special about her which makes people run to her. We cannot deny. Right?
Let them search. Who knows! Destiny is not in our hands.
Can you say that all software engineers are beautiful? Why can't we suppose like she can get a software engineer having the same physical attributes or something ditto to her sort? If he is an NRI, she is a rich girl.
See if anything is given voluntarily without force or condition and when relationship does not depend on the money, then ok.
What anyone say or implies when they talk about dowry is like it shouldn't be demanded and only on the money basis a match shouldn't be fixed.
Never discuss for argument sake. If you have valid points come up with them. No problem. We can think from different angles and then can come to a conclusion or consensus. (If it is really the purpose of the participants here).
Posted by: Ms. Prasanthi Uppalapati At: 17, Jun 2005 9:36:58 PM IST
/*People believe and respect (wo)men of actions not words.*/
Well said.
/*Dowry is the biggest social evil still prevalent no matter what.*/
Sorry, that is not true. There are bigger social evils in society than dowry. Don't you agree? Bribary for that instance.
nAkO chinna sandEham . kaTnam anEdi naSinchAli ani anTunnAru, sarE. oka sichyuyEshan vivaristA.
okammAyundi. vALLa nAnnaki kAsini DabbulunnAyi. kAsta Asthi kUDA undi. kAnI A pillaki chaduvu abbalEdu. dAntO padO taragatitOnE chaduvuni aTakekkinchindi. gArAbam valla vanTA vArpU EmI nErchukOlEdu. tinTam UrimIda paDi balAdUr tiragaDam . anTE sinimAlanukOnDi, shikArlanukOnDi. ika rUpurEkhala vishayAnikostE, A ammAyi nallagA unTundi. kAsta paLLettu. konchem chappiDi mukku.
ippuDI ammAyiki sambandhAlu chUstunnAru. vALLakEmO, abbAyi manchi sAfT`vEru injanIru ai unDAli(Em ? jarnalishTulu paniki rArA ani nannu aDagoddu, javAbu andarikI telusu) chakkagA unDAli, manchi kuTumba nEpadhyam unDAli, vIlaitE fArin tIsukeLLagaligina vADai unDAli, mo|| kOrikalunnAyi.
sapOj , far sapOj kaTnam , Asti lO bhAgam vagairA Ivils lEvu anukundAm ... mari ippuDU A pillaki kOrukunna moguDu vastADA rADA?
cheppukOnDi chUddAm !
Posted by: Bahud♥♥rapu Baatasaari At: 17, Jun 2005 6:17:45 PM IST
Posted by: Bahud♥♥rapu Baatasaari At: 17, Jun 2005 12:45:25 PM IST
:) adantE
Posted by: Mr. HAYAGREEVA MURTY Rachuri At: 17, Jun 2005 4:08:28 PM IST
I think it is more about being truthful to yourself, be clear about your principles. I treat asking for dowry as an act indicating lack of sheer self-respect. Of course, there will always be excuses like "I don't want it, but, I can't convince my parents" or "People will think there is something wrong with me". What are we if we can't decide upon things related to our own lives? If someone suspects something wrong with you because you don't want dowry, why get married to such a person?
Alaant^i bhaavaalu unna vaal^l^ani pel^l^i che^sukuni sardukupo^vaDam kanna, manato^ samaanamgaa alo^chinche^ unnatamaina bhaavaalu kala vaal^l^a ko^sam ve^chi unDat^am manchidi
Posted by: Ms. Haritha Nekkalapudi At: 17, Jun 2005 3:53:15 PM IST
A correction: Tatagari grandson. I mistakenly mentioned 'son-in-law'.
Kumar garu, yes, there are many evils in our society that to with respect to marriage. Anyway here the topic is exclusively about dowry.
Ofcourse, we can see the mud. But everyone exclaims like 'Dirty Mud', 'Shit' etc., but no one tries to clear it by throwing some water as their duty towards the society. What do we get by blaming or by saying there are other problems too? When we advocate change, we should be a part of it and we should be the first persons to follow. People believe and respect (wo)men of actions not words.
Ofcourse it is good to think of the social evils, discuss and do our level best (if we are interested) in working for it. So all of us, must try to put into action of what we advocate. It is not that if one person works, the whole world changes. But there are chances that people get inspired as the time pass by and the change can be expected. This is what happened with widow marriages, sati, untouchability etc.,
Posted by: Ms. Prasanthi Uppalapati At: 17, Jun 2005 2:02:41 PM IST
kukka tOka vankara anTE idE.
akkaDa A lA chaduvukunna peddAyanEmO DaurI prOhibishan EkT ani nettI nOrU koTTukuni mottukunTUnTE paddAkalA DaurI abOlishan EkT anTArEm ?
Posted by: Bahud♥♥rapu Baatasaari At: 17, Jun 2005 12:45:25 PM IST
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