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| Hey all, this is one of the anonymous user again.....i think those who are criticising about anonymous users are not so very familiar with rights......keep aside rights.....its very well written above....(scroll ur mouse a bit please) anonymous postings are allowed. Well Well iam happy to see many broad minded guys in this forum.
As far as my persoanl experience goes as a practising advocate in india most of the divorce cases in my office are based on trivial reasons. The prominent being accusing wife of being unfaithful. Our society hasen't changed a bit but i hope with broadminded people like you things will change for better.....enjoy and a happy week end.....again an anonymous user.
Posted by: Ms deepa v At: 3, Nov 2001 9:03:06 PM IST
Small correction......"I hope........" replace it with "I think....". Sorry again...bad english
Posted by: Mr. prasanth N At: 3, Nov 2001 1:48:31 PM IST
Hi all and andhra ammayi(if she doesnt have name),
I hope ur dream may never come true considering our culture and if ur views represents common woman (sorry, poor english i think). If I represent the common man, I will always try to enjoy the previleges which comes from our society. The developement is stuck up. This is the major reason why we r behind so many countries
It is my opinion....let us leave it
cheers
Murali
Posted by: Mr. prasanth N At: 3, Nov 2001 1:47:00 PM IST
I agree that no one should wait to be leaded and expecting someone to do our job. 100% correct. But I dont knwo if I really meant that in my previous message. :-)
Yeah! "not all are capable enough to stand on their views and voice out" I did use this statement. It just enumarates the fact. I dont find in what sense, that statment would mean that even capable people have to keep silent, or I/one will not try out myself/oneself but expect someone else to do my/one's job.( you will knw that if you read the same statement from the beggining; "It doesn't mean one has to be a puppet of ones society..." or a statement like "change is not only from girls OR OR OR OR not only from guy but all"....which mean both have to do things collectively; here also I said there should be a hand of girl too)
well, but there is something Mr Murali, I dont think I would like to agree with you; if I could manage to get the things the way you mean,
I do stress that both have to work collectively and its difficult or even impossible do get things changed with effort only from girls/women.Dont you think that the environment/society has a very great impact on humans.Its obvious, say, if you are born in a different culture or country your very kinda thinking would have been different. A human CANNOT live without being influenced by the society. At the same time; not necessarily one has to act according to what the MAJORITY of society EXPECTS. Again here, I like to stress the majority aspect. I belive its almost impossible/not practical to do things when there isn't a support even from minority. (ofcourse, its possible for super humans and I am not considering that case).
well, what I want to say in precise is, though there is always a chance to do what ever one like to do without bothering for a MAJORITY of society, its difficult to do as society has its own influence. But yes! there is always a way out; we have the minority support atleast, to get it done. To let the CHANCE being given. (yeah! one can argue no one has to give a chance it is to be taken. but to what extent is it practical?)
Do you think its ever possible for any human who is taught to be submitted all till now, who are taught to be dependent all till now can suddenly raise up to the standards to lead. All I want to say is, some things are necessary to keep up the courage, few of them could - be a proper education,a proper childhood which teaches courage,independence etc etc. and these are necessary!!!!! (true some revolutions like "anti arrack" movements doesn't need education but their life without some basic things is to be doubted).
Well, hence there is role of everyone a husband, a father, a mother, a brother, sister, friend..........what not! there is role of everyone who has to contribute to it. Atleast the people who can think (the minority support) about these are expected to help out. Its impossible for a girl's personality to be designed without influence of man.(though again one can resist, provided the capability; which comes from somehting else).This doesnt mean that all girls/women remain silent but let others too contribute to it without which its impossible to get the sucess.
This is an attempt to make you all think, that there are some problems in the society and its everyone's responsibility to act accordingly. And do their best.(even to the people who want to exploit... can understand somethigns and behave more human.)
Enjoy!
Posted by: Ms Samatha G At: 3, Nov 2001 12:03:55 PM IST
folks,
She says she wanna keep her identity secret coz of her own constraints. Why should we ask her identity again and again? As she rightly pointed out, our opinion should be standard independent of her profile. Lets not stress on that.....
Well..I have got a point to mention here..
When we are living in a society made of traditions and culture (ofcourse followed by our parents and hence we..) we may have to follow it. If not possible let us deviate completely and adopt to foreign culture.
When you adopt to the foreign culture, again u feel that there is something missing in this foreign culture. For instance "in this culture everybody go with everybody and there are no moral values...".
So lets be specific. what exactly we want?
"I donot want to leave my friends (including guys) even after my marriage.." Well, this has to be started somewhere and by someone. Why cant u be the that someone? '.......not all are capable enough to stand on their views and voice out' will never help to have a change in society. Particularly this kind of statements have been made by the people from our independence days and its continuing which are morally doent support others.YOU say that the change is to be there..outlook should change but who will start? YOU clap when Dubagunta Subbamma started some revolution, YOU clap when Women minister take oath in assembly, YOU clap when somebody talk in favour of u and say"ur broamindedness" coz clapping is easy and free of cost. But YOU are not ready to take any step to go further and to eradicate some social evils. YOU take tissue to wipe tears when a woman is suicided coz of some social evils but YOU will not be ready to face it. YOU want peaceful life but u will never turn to join the hands to fight"
So the YOU, the society woman, comeout and fight urself. DOnt ever ever say they have to change..he has to do....Nobody will come to u to do a favour. I, being man, will ever try to exploit u as long as I get a chance coz of the bloody indian mentality and the selfishness. Dont I like if my wife serves me a coffee..I could have made coffee myself, had she asked me to do so. But she never asks me. I will never try to leave the comforts. Thats the story...........
There are people who say "By nature man/woman are equal might b man is stronger than woman........." In what sense. When both enjoy the natural needs, where is the question of strong or weak....who said one is weak one is strong? Physically, am I stronger than Kunja Rani Devi?hahaha....... I dont think that is a point...and insensible. This kind of statements make women mentally weaker and weaker..
Conclusively, if YOU like this culture and life with little changes(I hope u want this only)..try for the changes URSELF. Dont ask men to join with u explicitly coz men are always with women but u need to shape them as need is urs. If u r not satisfied with this culture(as most of the men in this society are habituated to enjoy moral values and standards)...well, world door is opened
No hard feeling folks....
Cheers
Murali
Posted by: Mr. prasanth N At: 3, Nov 2001 10:59:48 AM IST
hello all and Mr Maruthi,
I really appreciate your broadmindedness. Its true that a girl should never lose her friends whether its boys are girls just because she got married. But the fact is there are a lot more people who still think in those lines i,e a girl has nothing to do with other guys the moment she gets married. And the pity is majority of guys think like that and parents/society teach girls to accept what ever ever is told to her. (They are taught submissiveness). Ofcourse, I dont mean that girls should be a puppet of her society but not all are capable enough to stand on their views and voice out.
So the change is to be there not only from girls or not only from guys but all. THe society's outlook should change. and the blame can be on no ones' ego or inferiority complex.
Coming to the identity part, yes even now I prefer to be an anonymous user. Its ones right to be the way one wants. Obviously it has nothing to do with fear. ( when can answer to every reply posted here, do you think the same will fear if he/she sees that in mail box?) But the reason is someting else. ITs matter of how one draws the division line between public and private matters. Atleast I dont want any of these stuff in discussion forums in my mail box as my intrest could be something else.
and the very statement like "neekantoo voka identity lenappudu nuvvu discussions forum lo type...." puzzles me. Atleast for me it (that statement) doesn't make any sense; as personal profiles has nothing to do with what we discuss here. Fine, even if you knwo who the person is or how she looks or what she does can your reply in anyway be different. (Unless you are a psychology doctor who gives solutions based on the present situation. And that approach is too narrow and couldn't be appreciated in a public forum like this).
There is no reason why one has to give there identity though there is no reason why one should not give their identity. Its a matter of choice and one has the right to chose the way they want.
Enjoy!
A girl.
Posted by: Ms Samatha G At: 3, Nov 2001 9:58:01 AM IST
Hey......no hard feelings and take it easy.....all anonymous users are true indians....no jati, no matam, no kulam, no peru......just nationality
regards............... anonymous
Posted by: Ms deepa v At: 2, Nov 2001 10:09:00 PM IST
Hi guys,
"WHAT DO U THINK ABT GALS",what is this man,if I say "WHAT DO U THINK ABT BOYS",how does it looks u all think it is v odd rite,y is that diff, is it bz of male dominence in the society or what.By nature man/woman are equal might b man is stronger than woman but it does mean that they r weak.Then in that case what is there to think,after all they r also living same like us,thinking same like us not only in one aspect in many aspects they r much similar to man.Atlast one word,woman is no more weaker than man.She is equalent to man.
Posted by: Mr. Ramesh Vojjala At: 2, Nov 2001 1:19:53 PM IST
i have been following this slanging match
between a so called anonymous user and
MR.gka for the past one week,it is
quiet amusing at times and stupidity at its
best sometimes ,will the so called
anonymous user stand up in the cyber space
so that we all can see her(i presume or is it
he)on our monitors for god sake let us
discuss something more cerebral.
no hard feelings folks
DR.vaka srinivas reddy
Posted by: Mr VAKA SRINIVASA REDDY At: 1, Nov 2001 11:54:10 PM IST
Hey Mr Gopikrishna Akella the idea that anumanam mundu putti tarvata ammayi puttindi and so girls don't take cyberfirendships seriously is i think a highly ridiculous thing.
Coz though "anumanam" concept is associated with gals , i think men have more anumanalu than women. The worst character about men is they expect their girlfriends to be very active etc but when it comes to choosing lifepartner they prefer sati savitris.
This is the worst kind of doublestandardness. I don't think any indian man will marry a woman who says that she has some cyberfreinds. So naturally women in india or rather girls in india who are said to lead a perfect life when they get married at the appropriate age, time etc etc will not show any interest in cyberfriendship as long as the attitude of men changes.
So the problem is not with women but with men. So i ask u MR GKA will u marry a girl who says she has some cyberfriends and that she likes to maintain friendship with them after marriage also? If ur answer is yes then hatsoff to you else take back ur statement.
Posted by: Ms deepa v At: 1, Nov 2001 10:09:12 PM IST
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