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| May be not specified writing something specified!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Posted by: Ms. srise Srinivas At: 7, Jan 2004 5:49:34 PM IST
Few deacades back if the dates are regular it was called " STEADY "
Now it's called " UNUSUAL"
Posted by: Mr. M Kumar N At: 6, Jan 2004 10:35:32 PM IST
"How long this dating goes? How long it takes to know each other?"
One cannot say how long it takes to get to know somebody. It is something that you should both, as adults, feel as to whether or not you are ready to take that next step towards marriage.
It is very encouraging to see that the youngsters in India (at least in the major cities) are using dating the right way. When I used to live in India 10 years ago, a lot of people used to date and they were very sensible indeed. When I went again to India recently (3 months ago), again there are so many youngsters who were dating (including my own cousins) and they were all very sensible about what they wanted out of it. They were using it the right way. Even when I said, why don't you get married, they said, we are still getting to know each other.
What people don't seem to acknowledge is that the youngsters these days are not stupid, they are learning from the mistakes of their friends and elders.
As for sex before marriage, Women know what they want and they should be strong to say "NO" if they are not ready to have sex before marriage. Hopefully, the guy will be understanding enough - if not, then I think the woman is better off without him, as the guy clearly is not the "understanding" type. But if they both feel they are ready and comfortable, then I don't see anything wrong with it either, provided they use the necessary protection!
Posted by: Mr. Gowrishankar Garigiparthy At: 29, Dec 2003 3:24:20 PM IST
one must learn and teach to live up with the cicumstances.adjustment is the best medicine for all social dieseses.divorce is now a prevailing dieses.
Posted by: ★Vinåyåkåm★ chitt♥♥r At: 28, Dec 2003 5:59:48 PM IST
When a decision can be reversed,your mind can't help but focus on whats wrong with your choice.but that decision set in,we tend to accept it.
Posted by: Mrs. Saila Sarigala At: 28, Dec 2003 5:55:23 PM IST
Lack of understanding ...avoided by dating..
ha..ha..ha
Posted by: Mrs. Saila Sarigala At: 28, Dec 2003 5:52:12 PM IST
Dating in its true sense is very essential even in our country. (INDIA). now a days we see lot of marriages leading towrds divorces. This is because of lack of understanding between the two. This can be avoided by dating (in its true sense) of knowing each other better before marriage.
Just by seeing each other across the room and just hearing abt the would be partner
is leading to all this.
This can be avoided by Dating wherein the boy and the girl can have clear understanding abt each other and lead a better married life.
As for the other side of it some may misutilise the idea of dating.
Posted by: Mr. Naga Bhushanam Lingamaneni At: 27, Dec 2003 8:24:55 PM IST
Dating in its true sense is very essential even in our country. (INDIA). now a days we see lot of marriages leading towrds divorces. This is because of lack of understanding between the two. This can be avoided by dating (in its true sense) of knowing each other better before marriage.
Just by seeing each other across the room and just hearing abt the would be partner
is leading to all this.
This can be avoided by Dating wherein the boy and the girl can have clear understanding abt each other and lead a better married life.
As for the other side of it some may misutilise the idea of dating.
Posted by: Mr. Naga Bhushanam Lingamaneni At: 27, Dec 2003 8:12:49 PM IST
Durga Prasad garu, chaalaa chakkagaa cheppaaru.
Mana Indian context lo ayithe, problem leni dating pelli ayina taruvaata better half tho cheyadame manchidi. Either it is a love marriage or an arranged one, people need to be like friends to understand each other very well. So develop f'ship first.
In the Western Context, Dating is to test whether we can cope up with the other person or not. In our Indian context, Dating is to cope up with the other person. Understand the other one, explain the mistakes, tolerate the weaknesses, strenghten the positives etc., I think we can be ideal, if we can follow this kind of Dating. Purpose is important and serving it is necessary.
Posted by: Ms. Prasanthi Uppalapati At: 12, Jun 2003 9:10:35 AM IST
kondaru mitrulannatlu, idi chetta topic kaadu, dating India lo ledanatam kooda sari kaadu. ee madhya Chennai laanti "pedda palletooru" lo kooda dating samskrithi perigipoindi. But how many of them are really treating it as correct dating is the question. Just having a boy/girl friend for status(yes it is true now a days, for style or status) or for getting the things done or for the sake of having a boy/girl friend is not the correct dating. It should have focus of "understanding each other" before marriage and thats the motto behind the dating of so called advanced countries. It is good to have dating in those countries, but how many of us in India, Indian men, will agree to marry a girl who refused the marriage with a man during dating and we know it? So, it is not feasible in India as of now, until we men broaden our minds and our women be honest and faithful.
Posted by: Durga Prasad At: 10, Jun 2003 4:51:01 PM IST
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