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General Forum: Love | | ~Space in love~ | |
| There are things in life that are inevitable and we are powerless to control them. The Sun will rise and set, the tide will come in and go out, the seasons will change, the birds will fly South for the winter and return in the spring, and the caterpiller will transform itself into a beautiful butterfly. Somehow, I feel reassured by this because many other things in life are so transient - so momentary unlike Luv.
To be luved and to be in luv is the best thing to experience. And people in luv are always READY TO WALK ON AN EGG SHELL!!!
though "The end is never as fun as the beginning" -:))!!!
sri1162000@yahoo.com
Posted by: Mr. srikar p At: 14, Aug 2004 5:26:56 AM IST
/My observation is that quite a number of folks actually lose their identity or individuality when they become "entangled" with someone else/
this may not hold good for everybody and cannot be generalised!
A wise person would, at some point, realize that from his/her subconsciousness otherwise that person is a sure candidate in the 'carried away' lot!
/However, I have to point out that one does not definitely need to be single to define his/her individulaity!/
one sure does need a mirror to look at oneself! :-)
Posted by: చంటోడు At: 12, Aug 2004 7:15:34 AM IST
hehe...here comes the diluting machine!
alright, will resume from here laterz!
Posted by: చంటోడు At: 12, Aug 2004 7:10:05 AM IST
/Gee...then all of us who thought that we had reached an awareness of who we really are must be idiots!/
lol, what did it take to reach that awareness?
My point about knowing one's individuality is simple -
like you wouldnt know what pleasure is if you did not go through the pain, one has to be 'not individual, meaning being attached' to realize one's individuality!
Posted by: చంటోడు At: 12, Aug 2004 6:51:16 AM IST
If you read my comments again I said 'are mistaken to be lonely' and I too agree that being alone is not being lonely!
/Why does one need another to know oneself?? We do not come into this world holding someone else's hand...neither do we leave the place doing that!/
Thats how you get a feedback on your individuality and there is always somebody to do that right from the time you were born!
If a person is not attached to anybody and deserted completely, would that person be in a position to realize who he/she is?
Posted by: చంటోడు At: 12, Aug 2004 6:36:20 AM IST
／I always say that we have to know ourselves as individuals first before we can form meaningful relationships with others. That identity is so vital...we cannot afford to lose it.／
Ｙｏｕ ｎｅｅｄ ａ ｐａｒｔｎｅｒ ｔｏ ｒｅａｌｉｚｅ ｔｈａｔ！ Ｗｉｔｈｏｕｔ ａ ｐａｒｔｎｅｒ， ａｎｙ ｉｎｄｉｖｉｄｕａｌ ｉｓ ｍｏｓｔ ｏｆｔｅｎ ｍｉｓｔａｋｅｎ ａｓ ｂｅｉｎｇ ＇ｌｏｎｅｌｙ＇ ！ Ｓｏ， ｉｔｓ ｌｉｋｅ ａ ｃａｔｃｈ－２２ ｓｉｔｕａｔｉｏｎ ！
Posted by: చంటోడు At: 12, Aug 2004 6:13:31 AM IST
Ｗｈａｔ ｄｏ ＹＯＵ ｔｈｉｎｋ Ｍａｇｇｉｅ？
Posted by: చంటోడు At: 12, Aug 2004 5:37:27 AM IST
enlighten on my misinterpretation? that would be so wild and you dont wanna hear it! :P
if, on the subject then...
I think there should be space but how practical is that, as such it is sometimes blind and on top of it, everybody's in a rush to deliver their best and by the time you realize that its too late!
I guess it all comes from the fact that you love naturally by instinct and not by design or attending some classes!
Posted by: చంటోడు At: 6, Aug 2004 7:18:45 AM IST
For a sec I read it as 'Love in Space' and started to imagine all about it!! :P
hey Maggie...LTNS! :-)
Posted by: చంటోడు At: 6, Aug 2004 7:00:40 AM IST
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