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General Forum: Hyderabad | | Love | |
| Hello Mr Chandrasekhar.....
U posted u'r actual problem in Feb...
Now it's June.....I hope u might have taken a good decission by this time......
Or r u still in confusion mode....?
4 months gone.....have u people taken steps to convey u'r love to u'r parents....?
Of course..this is u'r personnel matter.....but as u have told u'r problem to us......iam asking u......taht's all......
Problems will be solved in better way....by sharing.....
o.k......
GOOD LUCK to u both......
take a good decission asap.....
there is no point in being in confusion mode still.......
o.k.....
Posted by: Mr kiran kumar At: 20, Jun 2002 1:48:04 AM IST
Thanks to Mr dyvadhinam yaddanapudi, Mr. Jalandar Ande & Mr kiran kumar
thank you for ur valuable suggestions...
Lets see what happens with me...
Posted by: Mr chandra sekhar At: 18, Jun 2002 5:21:42 PM IST
Jai-Baba
Love is a lot-ani ;Love is Every thing Ani
Prema Guddi dani-Premey nerama Ani-Gadhalu-Geyalu-Manaku suparichitamey.Pravaham lo padi
Swim chesi-nettukochinavanini-sebhash antam;
Muniguthu-teluthu-help-help aney vanini chusi
Ayyo-papam antam-edey anni prema kadhala-saramsam-Phalithalaloe-kotta danam lekunna
Prayatnalu nitya -nuthanaley.
Prastutaniki-mana friend Chandrasekhar gariki-Na suggesion-Length of time is not cretarion;but depth of intemacy in reciprocation of their feelings are to be taken into account when others proposed to get rid off from the social bonds.
Posted by: Mr dyvadhinam yaddanapudi At: 16, Jun 2002 7:07:43 AM IST
yes fr i gree with u Mr Kiran,
mr Chandra shekar, i would like to say the same things which he (Kiran) left over here.,
i agree with his openion, & just u drop the cause why they will not agree (intercaste/???) then we will discuss/solve your probl...right....
if your sure, that they(parents) r not goint to agree the marriage, but dont plan to runaway, what i suggest is: if u both loves each other & seriously thinking about it, then pls try to convience your parents....once started doing all this then the things will start to happen smoothely...
if not, u both knows what is better for yourselves........remember one thing that we have to give 1st preference to our parents...cause they are started loving us from when we are not came to earth...then from there it starts ....
so tell me whose love is more for u (if u r thinking about elopement & hurting them)**
(this love(20+yrs) is more than your love of 2-3 moths)..afcouse , i am not against your love but when the things r comes to elopement we have to think everything.,
2 nelala prema kosam 20 years+ penchina tallitandrulanu baadha petti velladam manchidikaadu ...alaa chesi manamu kooda sukhamgaa vundalemu*
elaaga ayina mee tallitandrulanu oppinchandi, adi asaadyam kaadu....mee prema meetho vunte anni asaadyalaanu saadyam cheyavachu....
what ever i dropped over here it is for the both of u (for the BOY & GIRL).
best of luck for both of u (LOVERS)
one of the famous sayings: mullunu mullu tho ne teeyali..., annatlu
prema nu prema tho ne gelavaaali
ee formula mee parents case lo use cheyandi.
Posted by: Mr. Jalandar Ande At: 15, Jun 2002 12:23:23 PM IST
She did nothing wrong by expressing ILU....
Suddenly she didn't tell u.......
She knows u..u knows her.....
u had friendship bond for past 2 months....
There is a lot of chances for friendship converting into Love.......
She is not a stranger to u........
And dhe asked for elopement means....when she expressed her love to u.u have also comitted for that initially......
see....if u likes her and loves her....love her...marry her.....
O.k.....its not correct to think of elopement......
why u r saying that elders will not agree........of course initially they may not agree (coz of some reasons....)..u have to convience them if u r loving each other very much......see....elopement is not a solution........
If u r going to marry some one means.u r going to add one more great affection to u'r family.......it should be like that......
it should strengthen the relation ship.but should not weaken...o.k.....
Ofcourse....destination of every love may not be marriage........it doesn't mean that they didn't love each other really......
And it doesn't mean that u don't have courage....
Real love dominates courage and every thing....Real love lies where everyone becomes happy.....
Thinking of elopement is not at all a good idea.....infact it is timidness......if u r able to think upto there..why don't u even try to convience elders......if u r strong they will agree definitely.....
But u ahould be very stronger that u have to marry her....
i hope finally they will agree.i have seen many people who succeded like this and are very happy......
Remember one thing.....first preference is for parents......
Parents maree mondigaa pravarthisthe.....tharvatha sangathi aalochincha vachu...first u have to try to convience them....
Tell me why u r thinking that u'r parents will not agree.....some reason may be there........
Posted by: Mr kiran kumar At: 23, Feb 2002 0:50:21 AM IST
Hi, i wan't suggestions!!
One Girl suddently Loves me..and the next day she says that she wants to marry me..and i said they parents wont accept...then she said LECHIPOODAAMAA...its just a 3 days LOVE and 2 months Friendship..
what to do? please suggest me?
Posted by: Mr chandra sekhar At: 22, Feb 2002 8:04:31 PM IST
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