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General Forum: Life in USA | a thought before marriage | |
| Ravi,
Career has nothing to do with married life I think I mean it's the different phases in life that you have to accept. Sometimes one of you have to give a break in your career for the other person in order to stay in the bond of marriage. You should make her understand this and also be ready to do it too. If say you got married to a career-oriented girl(non-IT) and say your green card is taking time, in the mean while if she gets frustrated, you have to be ready to give up your career and go back to India.
It's not always her comprimising everything. You also have to share it, sharing and caring about each other is the essence of marriage. So, Think in terms of marriage and what it needs, you will have better answers for this.
--Madhu.
Posted by: sita tangirala madhu At: 13, Jun 2005 10:01:54 AM IST i guess u'r correct Mr. Malakpet Rowdy
Posted by: ravi At: 2, Jun 2005 0:03:06 AM IST ITZ ALWAYS BETTER TO TELL HER BEFORE THE MARRIAGE SO THAT SHE WOULD GIVE IT A THOUGHT, CONSULT OTHERS AND TAKE A DECISION ...
IF YOU HIDE ALL THESE THINGS BEFORE THE MARRIAGE, AND THEN START GIVING HER UNPLEASANT SURPRISES, YOU ARE ONLY THROWING YOURSELF INTO A DEEP TROUBLE!
AND NOTE MY POINT - SHE WILL NEVER PARDON YOU FOR LYING TO HER!
ITS BETTER TO TELL HER THE TRUTH AND GET REJECTED EARLY THAN TO GIVE HER FALSE ASSURANCES AND GET REJECTED LATER :))
ANTHYA NISTHOORAM KANNA AADI NISTHOORAM MELANI VINALEDA?
Posted by: Malakpet Rowdy At: 30, May 2005 11:35:01 AM IST if u need a wife ,look for a wife ,if u need a working partner ,look for one . marriage ,jobs ki emi link ?
Posted by: Mr. Doctorate Thief At: 29, May 2005 11:56:20 AM IST I recently read few articles in tp.com about experiences of women on H4 in US. I though it might be a better idea to get opinion/comment of people in this regard. I hope at least few of the married people write their views.
Marrying a working (in INDIA) girl:
Until unless the girl is working as software engineer, she will not be able to pursue career in US. At least till the husband get his green card. Even if the girl worked in INDIA she might not be able to get job. What will happen till then? Will the girl be able to stay home happily without working?
Marrying a girl just finished her studies :
Whatever the girl studied it would be difficult to get job as she does not have any experience. In cases girl might want to go for higher education. Again depends on understanding between the pair. What if the girl is not able to go for higher studies or for job. Will the girl be able to stay home happily?
If the guy tells about this future to girl before marriage, will she able to understand and agree?
Posted by: ravi At: 29, May 2005 8:01:44 AM IST
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