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General Forum: Society | | Father's Day: Is a modern day father viewed merely as moneymaking machine by the family members? | |
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talliprEma vyaktaMgaa uMTuMdi (manifest)
taMDriprEma avyaktaMgaa uMTuMdi (unmanifest)
riTeirayyaaka taMDri viluva sahajaMgaa taggaTaM chaalaa kuTuMbaalalO choostunnaaM.
aMdukanE paMchukunE saMdarbhaalalO tallinE kOrukuMTaaru pillalu ( panimanushulanu peTTukOvaTaM Kareedoutunna ee rOjullO ee musalaaDu ekkuvagaa panikiraaDu kadaa!)
Edi Emeinaa manaM techchipeTTukunna 'dinaalalO' idi okaTi.
idi oka rakaMgaa 'tat`', 'dinamu'la kalayika SabdamE.
Posted by: SATYA RAMA PRASAD KALLURI At: 18, Jul 2005 7:01:36 PM IST
hello friends,
as per my view father is not a machine of earning,of course as per the social life we know from imemorial time he is the financial source of the family,but one has to remember that he is a sucha type of celebrity who has given us the body followed by he is the person who will give us the social status and the good family background,now a days due to globalisation even they have changed a lot and take the responsiblities of mother,as per my view he is a good friend,wealth of wishdom,wealth of happiness ......................etc.
Posted by: Mr. veeresh juturu At: 21, Jun 2005 5:49:57 PM IST
kontamandi bhaaryalu, pillalu alaaganE anukonTaaru, inkontamandi bharta/tanDrisampaadananusarinchi vaaLLa kharchulu kOrikalu tagginchukunTaaru kOODaa. andulO maamOODO ammaayi marInu. chaalaa pisinaari. nEnu udyOgam lO vunTE daani skuulu phIju 43 ruupaayalE, adE nEnu svachChanda padavIviramaNa chEstE daaniki 250 ruupaayala phIjukaTTaalani gOlapeTTi nannu svachChanda padavIviramaNa chEyakunDaa aDDupaDindi. idi oka udaaharaNa maatramE. kaani ekkuvagaa tanDri sampaadinchi pOshinchaali vaaLLakOrikalannI tIrchaalannadE prabalamgaa vundi.
vaalmIki antakumundu daaridOpiDIlu chEsi poTTa pOsukunTunnappuDu naaraduDu dInivalana nIvu paapaanni mooTakaTTukonTunnaavu, dInilO nI bhaaryaabiDDalu paalu panchukunTaarEmO aDigi rammanTaaDu. daanikaasatIsutulu nI paapaanikI maakuu sambandhamu lEdu pOshinchE baadhyata nIdi ani anTE ataniki vairaagyam vachchi naaraduDupadESinchina mantram japistuu vunDagaa atani chuTTuu puTTalu perigi konnaaLLataruvaata vaalmIki gaa avataristaaDU. valmIkamanTE puTTa. andununchi vachchina vaaDu vaalmIki.
Posted by: Mr. HAYAGREEVA MURTY Rachuri At: 21, Jun 2005 9:05:57 AM IST
Posted by: Site Administrator At: 19, Jun 2005 9:02:32 AM IST
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we can,t say only the father is tha money making machine some mothers also contributing ,this is applicable for Indian society here most of the cases where father involves in money making process and mothers plans it for proper utilisation, some stress on father is there to meet the needs of the entire family but one can forget the stress and strain for money after seeing the happyness in the eyes of wife and children
some times I feel and gets tension,If any thing happens to me what about the family who will take care of them, because I were the person responsible to brought a new person in the name of wife ,later children in the process-
why should we fear god is there to lookafter
Posted by: Mr. Bhaskar At: 20, Jun 2005 3:55:58 PM IST
Thanks to all the sons who wished their fathers. A male does not have much money to spend for himself, when he is at college. As he just settles down with a job, he gets married, then he sacrifices his time at office, does not even do much for himself which he would have wanted as a single and then tries to please his wife, and buys all the things for his children
FATHER: WE ARE INDEBTED TO U , AS WE ARE TO THE MOTHER.
Posted by: DoBoy At: 20, Jun 2005 3:41:19 PM IST
Thx Crocy .. and my Opinion is a big "NO".
Posted by: Malakpet Rowdy At: 20, Jun 2005 2:47:39 PM IST
who ever got the idea ,that fathers are money making machines are just crazy ,many fathers take dowry and live off comfortably as mr.vachaspati suggested .the title might be aptly renamed fahters are merely money keeping machines .
Posted by: Mr. Pit and the Pendulum At: 19, Jun 2005 12:11:44 PM IST
The children (majority ) never view their fathers like that.In turn fathers are finding it difficult to spare time apart from regular work schedules.This does not mean that they are moving away..from warmth and compassion.... At any given point of Time they stand best of bests...
Unions after small time gaps are more..enjoyable...
Posted by: ★Vinåyåkåm★ chitt♥♥r At: 19, Jun 2005 10:17:14 AM IST
No. Not at all. I don't think so that family members especially children look upto father as money making machine. These days even women are working. Ofcourse children expect monetary gifts from father because whom else they can ask other than their parents. But it doesn't mean children ignore the love of the father.
Anyway it always depends on the upbringing and the quality time spent with the children. yathA rAjA tathA prajA holds true. No matter what one should never neglect the children in their early years. The values, principles we inculcate in them, will last long. This is the major responsibility. Children are our biggest property on whom we can count on.
So IMHO, father is not merely viewed as money making machine. If at all it is so, it is the mistake of the father only for involving himself and his time only to earning but not playing with the children.
Posted by: Ms. Prasanthi Uppalapati At: 19, Jun 2005 10:10:28 AM IST
Parents share family responsibilities. Fathers control family financially while mothers control emotionally. Of late, there seems to be lot of stress on fathers trying to match their earnings to the needs of the family members. Fathers are being viewed merely as moneymaking machines. The other side, warmth and compassion, are being ignored. Do you agree with this argument? Discuss.
Posted by: Site Administrator At: 19, Jun 2005 9:02:32 AM IST
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