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General Forum: Current 'Affairs' | | LET US BE HONEST, WE LIED ATLEAST ONCE. | |
| He He , One lie is enough to break the trust ...
Saala ek jhoot saccha aadmi ko jhoota banadeta hai (Nana Patekar Isstyle) :))
Posted by: Malakpet Rowdy At: 2, Aug 2005 2:32:20 PM IST
You are right, a lie is a lie no matter what. But the difference between lying with family and lying with friends can be looked in a different way.
Our friends and boss do not care as much when we break their trust. They may or may not forgive us easily, but frankly speaking we also do not give those kind of relationships much thought. Of course we do care abt those ppl, but it's ultimately our family is the one whom our life centers around.
Whereas,with our families' (excluding parents, who are forgiving by nature)it's a total different ball game. We cant keep breaking their trust by lying, eventually they will come to a point where they will no longer trust us in any aspect and will eventually lose the respect n in some cases, love for us.
Posted by: Krishna Ch At: 2, Aug 2005 4:48:02 AM IST
Malak ji, I didn't mean that we have to avoid all the situations that need to be lie. I mean, we can better avoid such situations which need us to lie to LP. For this, I don't think that we need to be a God or a Saint, we can be like us(take for example, you, in the scenario that we used to discuss, take me ... ). What say?
*muah* mamoy
Well, every lie has got its own risk, but we lie based on the returns. :) . For example, I say that I am a bachelor, which is a risk, but I'm ready to take the risk if I get a good return. :)
Posted by: Bahud♥♥rapu Baatasaari At: 1, Aug 2005 9:19:18 PM IST
Well well,
Your relationship withyour Boss is not based on Trust ..
Your relationship withyour friends ( in most of the cases) i snot based on trust either ..
But the relationship with your Mom, Dad or Spouse is based on The TRUST ... and that makes all the difference ..
If you have a friend (or even a boss), who trusts you blindly, come what the situation maybe, then I would say Lying to that person would not be a good idea.
Posted by: Malakpet Rowdy At: 1, Aug 2005 4:52:32 PM IST
Crocy,
Lying to the family harms oneself in the long run .. Its like one Lying to oneself!
Baba,
If only humans could avoid the unwanted situations!
Posted by: Malakpet Rowdy At: 1, Aug 2005 4:34:41 PM IST
Sorry, I haven't gone down and posted.
Well Malak ji, instead, why can't we avoid any situation that needs us to lie to spouse?
Posted by: Bahud♥♥rapu Baatasaari At: 1, Aug 2005 3:19:53 PM IST
prANa vitta mAnabhangamulandu bonkavachchunadhipha
Posted by: Bahud♥♥rapu Baatasaari At: 1, Aug 2005 3:17:49 PM IST
Well said Myrtle ...
I too dont recommend lying to Spouse for that spoils the relationship a lot!
Posted by: Malakpet Rowdy At: 1, Aug 2005 2:13:23 PM IST
In common life one has to be honest. Then only relationship develops between friends , couple, brothers, business people and countries.
Here, being honest and lies has no relation.
If a company guarantees a product for one year and the product got damaged within one year that doesn't mean the company lied.
Lie is a personal commitment and for the self but not related to the public purpose.
Lie is totallly a personal thing. People just compare with others. Once you are comparing with another lier you are already in the list of liers. The real problem is we compare with respectable historical people to avoid the blame.
George Bernard Shaw " All Auto Biogrphies are Lies".
If you are reading one treat them as justn lies or some comic books.
Posted by: Mr. M Kumar N At: 1, Aug 2005 12:45:30 PM IST
What we basically agree to is 99% of them have lied to someone at some point of time or the other, depending on our convenience, not minding of wht other's would hv thought.
Posted by: DoBoy At: 1, Aug 2005 12:31:48 PM IST
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