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Articles: My Thoughts | I'm I doing right way to my kid !!
- Mr. Mahendra Nath Katipally
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Do we complain about our kids to third party..?
Yes we do..!! R u we doing the right way..!!! we don’t know.
I feel a complaint about our kids should go from mother to father and father to mother, and not by the third party.
A complaint about our kids should be never report to third party in front of our kids. otherwise, they will think that my parents always complaints about me in front of relatives, friends and others and they might get used to it and get more stubborn.
A complaint can be raise to third party when kids are not in presence.
The third party should advise the kids in the absence of the parents.
This is the thumb rule I feel.
Also an appraisal of our kid always will be good if it comes from the third party rather than parents.
Parents can appraise the kids but not always..
I feel there will be strong encouragement if the appraisal comes from third party than the parents.
Kids feel more happy and inspiration when an appraisal comes from third party and then parents should then appraise the kid by adding to the third party words.
Also I feel the best gift to our child on his/her birthday will be what all they have done for that last year from bday to bday. What good things and bad things they have done during that one year period.
We can write how best they can improve or rectify those error by next bday.
This is the gift I’m giving to my kid at present and will continue this all my life.
I’m I doing right thing..!! is this right gift what I’m giving to my son on his b’day.
Indoor games (video , computer games) are not letting our kids to remove their sweat from their body.
We should allow them or send them to play outside and let them sweat atleast once or twice a week.
Regarding grown up kids , atleast monthly once or twice , parents should do some investigation in their colleges about their good and bad and their behavior, whether they have got the right friends and are on right track without the notice of our children.
A parents eye should be more powerful than an eagle eye I feel.
R we monitoring our kids what we suppose to do..??
I have seen many parents neglecting their kids and seen so many disasters like kids falling in water sump, buckets, well, boiling milk, eating dangerous medicines.
In fact we should not give a chance for it than to monitor it.
I told my wife several times to switch off the stove when ever there is a phone call or calling bell ring, as this turns to be several minutes conversation and chance of disaster.
Do u have any suggestions pls.!!
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